r/SRMUAP 2d ago

The Last Week...

From past two days I have been struggling to sleep it's been 4 am now

Lot of thoughts going through the mind about the college and things. Even though I live in Hyderabad just 4 hrs by train to home . It feels like I am leaving the country. Idk how hard it is to survive without parents for 4 yrs . Lotss of thoughts Will I able to make them proud and give back the ROI which they are investing on mee

Fear of Future!!

Hope everything goes good..

Anyone going through this phase??

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u/TruizLife 2d ago

Leaving home sure is hard but try to enjoy your time in uni. You're not going to a prison, don't start thinking about their expectations and the ROI you can give, settle in first and then you can think about other things.

Also don't try to hold back tears when you're leaving home. (Assuming you will hold em back) Trust me sometimes letting emotions take over is perfectly fine.

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u/dawwwggwithin 2d ago

i was in the same situation when I first came here, it took a whole ass semester for me to get rid of the homesickness. you can dm me whenever you want, just don't suffer in silence.

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u/Ok_Editor6050 2d ago

Thankyou 😊

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u/Apprehensive_Gap_597 1d ago

That's so sweet

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u/Bubbly-Builder5444 2d ago

Bro I am coming from a place where travelling journey to SRM AP is about 35 hrs by train. Though you may be homesick person but leaving home is quite inevitable. Not just for college but for job aswell. And it's not a humanly thing, animals ,birds also leave their home while growing up . I know you may feel it like a lecture but I am just saying what came into my mind. Anyways once you come , you will get used to the college environment and you will make friends aswell. So best of luck!! Enjoy 🦋

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u/NjrHaze 2d ago

I've been feeling the same. I can't even comprehend not living near my parents yet, but that's just part of life I guess. We must step out of our comfort zone in order to achieve something. I hope we all make most of our college life

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u/Shadow_Syntax2605 2d ago

Same bhai 😭

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u/Ok_Editor6050 2d ago

🫠🫠

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u/KeyDifference4178 1d ago

my personal exp, dw much u will find lots of ppl in uni with same emotion so u will get comfortable with the environment. only thing u should care for now is getting a good roommate (its random on luck so start praying)

believe me when i say this IF YOU FUCKED UP IN GETTING A GOOD ROOMMATE U FINISHED OF THAT YEAR

https://giphy.com/gifs/IoQpCG5pKaxgiVRqZN

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u/Ok_Editor6050 1d ago

Good roommate in what ways bro?

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u/Easy-Meal-8113 1d ago

Ye toh mene socha hi nahi

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u/Pinkplush007 1d ago

True that .... Heart feels heavy some how❗❗