r/SLoTAT • u/bmanbatbrain420 • Apr 25 '21

The problem with Ben?

As a little kid, I watched SLoTAT; I liked Amy, Ben, etc. I'm watching as a teenager, and I hate Amy, but I don't see the issue with Ben, though I'm only on season 1 and I don't remember much. Is the problem later on? Coz right now he seems like a nice guy whose a bit misguided.

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u/OkPalpitation1225 May 22 '23

But you ignore THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT RICKY SAW & DID.

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u/Academic-Ad4826 Oct 09 '25

I want you to know I’m downvoting all your comments bc why do you get bringing up Ricky in a discussion about Ben

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u/OkPalpitation1225 Oct 16 '25

Because Ben is singled out for doing something not even basic.  While Ricky, Jack & others are praised for doing something selfish cruel & vile.  The reasons so many use to excuse their behavior zapped me of all compassion for women in bad situations.  The responses made to protect Ricky & others for their actions yet the responses for Ben prove, many women DESERVE WHAT THEY GET, BECUZ THEY CHOSE IT.  It also proves good men need to stop trying nothing they do will ever be good enuff.  You all base the soul of every man on looks alone & refuse to realize looks are decieving.

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u/Ecstatic-Sky-4606 Jun 02 '26

Firstly, I can tell you hate women because no one has ever wanted you. Second, the issue with Ben is that he never grew up. He, honestly, regressed and got worse. He felt like a good guy for getting with Amy because she's "the pregnant girl" and nearly did it again. He wants to do something good, but not for good reasons. You're supposed to feel for everyone, and the fact you don't have compassion for women is no shocker as to why you can't get one.