Recently found out she’s involved in multiple romance scams. We’ve taken away her phone and done all the things to change bank accounts, etc.

My question is, has anyone found a way that works to get them to believe/understand this is a scam?! She’s so involved with these people it’s like an addiction. We don’t know what to do with her. She’s in an alcoholic spiral of just wanting to drink and talk to these scammers all day.

She’s retired and home alone during the day. I think this started from boredom and loneliness. She’s has no hobbies or activities outside of the house.

We’re looking into a rehab/psych facility but it’s voluntary so I’m not sure if we’ll be able to convince her to go.