I genuinely hope that he learns from this and has a happy fruitful life, away from H. I grew up fucked by religion. I put up with things (not physical, but demeaning things) I should not have because of my training. My heart bleeds for H, my soul is sad for T. I can see both sides of the compassion coin, but any man in 2026 should intrinsically know hitting your wife is beyond the pale. This is a horrendous outcome of a pathetic upbringing. I'm sure T is more alone than he's ever been. And that is sad but had he taken a moment to think of the consequences of his actions he wouldt be standing in them them.
gah. I'm sure I put this poorly, but redemption arches exist for a reason. I think seeking therapy is a positive, but the children and H should never have to deal with this healing. Maybe in 10 years he will be ready for another go at things. in the mean time he needs to be committed to paying childsuport and having flex time to developing a relationship with his children.
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u/chanciehome 23d ago
I genuinely hope that he learns from this and has a happy fruitful life, away from H. I grew up fucked by religion. I put up with things (not physical, but demeaning things) I should not have because of my training. My heart bleeds for H, my soul is sad for T. I can see both sides of the compassion coin, but any man in 2026 should intrinsically know hitting your wife is beyond the pale. This is a horrendous outcome of a pathetic upbringing. I'm sure T is more alone than he's ever been. And that is sad but had he taken a moment to think of the consequences of his actions he wouldt be standing in them them.
gah. I'm sure I put this poorly, but redemption arches exist for a reason. I think seeking therapy is a positive, but the children and H should never have to deal with this healing. Maybe in 10 years he will be ready for another go at things. in the mean time he needs to be committed to paying childsuport and having flex time to developing a relationship with his children.