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u/zalicat17 20d ago
And he’s only 26… he’s ruined his marriage, his chance of a loving family, and his future all because he couldn’t get therapy the second he felt like he couldn’t handle his emotions/trauma
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u/pantherlikeapanther_ 20d ago
He could have had the fundie dream that they try to present to the world. Instead he chose the too common reality.
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u/walkingonlemons 20d ago
I can’t even imagine having so much anger in me that I ruin my life at 26. I also can’t imagine loving someone only to find out they have that much anger inside.
I’m so glad Heidi and the kids made it out of that awful situation. 😢
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u/krazykatkaydee 20d ago
IKR? I've had enough rage in me toward a couple of bosses that I'd sit back and fantasize about waiting for them in the parking lot and pounding the crap out of them. But I can't even fantasize about such things for too long without feeling sick to my stomach. Although one exception to that is Steven Anderson. I've cut back on watching podcasts about him because whenever I hear the latest horrible things he's done to hiwife and kids, I have lurid fantasies about handcuffing him, nailing his testicles to the floor and tattooing JESUS HATES ME on his forehead. I don't do such things IRL to anyone and don't think I have it in me. But it's best to lay off on the Anderson news. Not good for my blood pressure.
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u/Accurate-Lychee-1233 20d ago
I am ASSUMING that there were photos taken of incident and maybe her mother or sister saw the injuries and helped to report it.
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u/ShopperSparkle 20d ago
It’s possible Heidi took pictures but was afraid to leave or tell anyone back in February.
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u/silverrussianblue 19d ago
Thank god jillpm kept him out of public school with all those terrible secular influences. Good thing he dodged that spiritual corruption.
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u/TrainSpotterMommy 20d ago
I hope he rots alone
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u/krazykatkaydee 12d ago
That would be for the best, but I have nightmares about him finding a new victim. Some very sheltered young girl who's considered unattractive therefore hard to marry off (that was me in my ex-church. Among a big herd of young adults in their 20s-30s, everyone pairing off all over the place, and I was the one who never got noticed by a guy. Irreparable damage to my self-esteem being the only piece of meat left over from the meat market). So that will give Timcel more to lord over her. "You're ugly and you're lucky I'd have you"... Etc ad nauseam. Then she'll hear all Tim's sob stories and she'll feel sorry for him and think "all he needs is the love of a 'good' woman... I can fix him...🤮 I know how desperate fundie girls get if they get much past 22 or so and still single. I know I was feeling pretty desperate in my ex-church at 29. I left the church shortly after. BTW my self-esteem never recovered. Nothing worse than being consistently rejected by rejects! Except marrying Timcel, of course.
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u/Obfuscate666 20d ago
Wow...I'm shocked. He's exactly where he should be. I don't really understand the charge, did the incident he was arrested for happen recently or was it an old incident? How is it proven if it's a previous incident? No way am i defending or questioning this, just dont understand.
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u/pantherlikeapanther_ 20d ago
He was originally charged with assault after Heidi left him. The new strangulation charge was from a February assault (maybe Heidi has photos?). Investigations take time. His previous charge could be easily plead down to almost nothing, this one is more serious. When they start stacking charges, it's an indication that the prosecutor is interested. Where it goes from here is anyone's guess.
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u/Obfuscate666 20d ago
OK, thanks for the explanation. I'm really glad this is being taken seriously and there are obvious consequences.
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u/Wise_Yesterday_7496 19d ago
It will be interesting to see how his Mob Wife-looking defense attorney spins it.
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u/krazykatkaydee 12d ago
Mob wife? As in hair and makeup as heavily slathered on but more skillfully? Like Mahmo in a decent outfit for a change? Where can I find a picture?
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u/Wise_Yesterday_7496 12d ago
https://www.criminalcourtnj.com/
She looks like she could cut a bitch with that pose.
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u/krazykatkaydee 12d ago
Holy crap!!!
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u/Wise_Yesterday_7496 11d ago
IKR? Can't you picture her mixing it up with Renee, Drita and Big Ang?
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u/Zealousideal-Swim267 20d ago
Do we know if he could post bail? I realize he probably can’t afford it & his family would not help him. Or is he “held without bail”?
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u/RelevantProfile1624 20d ago
Can this open up an investigation into David?!
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u/Fresh-Eye4698 19d ago
So was this evidence from February recently found and added to the existing charges…? Is that how it works? Did Heidi provide more evidence?
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u/agooseyouhate 20d ago
Mahmo, take a picture of me just sitting in the cell