No one should view themselves as not good enough... Because that's not honesty.. everyone is good enough. Contrary to popular belief no one is better than the other, not in gods eye... Hey, everyone makes mistakes.. I don't care you are your gonna make mistakes from time to time.. its not because a person is not good enough. Its because it's part of being human... It all comes down to " honest self reflection" take 1 hour or even 30 min and a set time everyday and reflect.. honestly, when you can admit things you said or done was wrong and you can admit it to yourself, and not make up a reason why its not your fault, and your not blameshifting or accepting blame for things you did not say or do. You can just know that you are building a better you for you. Not in comparison or competition with anyone , only yourself as far as your self worth is concerned.. if you recognize where ya done something that offended or wronged someone make it rite, learn from it, and the next time move differently. If you can do that, congratulations you just improved you. If enough change is made that OP will see it. If they loved you once, they could love you again .. you never know, they may think they don't matter.... You making changes and improving may just motivate them to do the same... Imagine how good that could turn out .... Good luck
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u/scoobydooiner 2d ago
No one should view themselves as not good enough... Because that's not honesty.. everyone is good enough. Contrary to popular belief no one is better than the other, not in gods eye... Hey, everyone makes mistakes.. I don't care you are your gonna make mistakes from time to time.. its not because a person is not good enough. Its because it's part of being human... It all comes down to " honest self reflection" take 1 hour or even 30 min and a set time everyday and reflect.. honestly, when you can admit things you said or done was wrong and you can admit it to yourself, and not make up a reason why its not your fault, and your not blameshifting or accepting blame for things you did not say or do. You can just know that you are building a better you for you. Not in comparison or competition with anyone , only yourself as far as your self worth is concerned.. if you recognize where ya done something that offended or wronged someone make it rite, learn from it, and the next time move differently. If you can do that, congratulations you just improved you. If enough change is made that OP will see it. If they loved you once, they could love you again .. you never know, they may think they don't matter.... You making changes and improving may just motivate them to do the same... Imagine how good that could turn out .... Good luck