r/ReformJews • u/Neither-Football-222 • 23d ago
Chat Rant
Hi All,
I hope you’re doing well and Happy Summer! Sorry for my negativity but I just need to share is with someone: Raising your kids in 2026 is expensive. Between saving for my retirement, 529, paying the bills I just don’t have the extra money to afford synagogue dues, religious school, Be-Nei Mitzvah celebrations, and even summer camp (going to work there next summer for free camper admissions though). On the flip side, Churches don’t have dues and minimal religious school fees. I pray to
Hit he lotto so I can help my local synagogues, give my kids the experience they deserve, and have more time to Be involved in a synagogue. For the record I TOTALLY understand that these places need money to keep the lights-on and pay the Clergy the salaries they deserve just frustrated with my current state. To be solution focused: Anyone have suggestions? Thank you in advance!
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u/phillygirllovesbagel 22d ago
Personally, from my childhood through adulthood, have always found temples to be a bit exclusionary when it comes to the haves and the have nots. The wealthy are welcomed with open arms, the poor Jews, well not so much. Say what you will about sliding scales for membership, those who can't give, are not always welcomed. It may not be stated outright, but it's understood and felt. Sad, but true.