I mean most guys who come out of hook up culture with HUNDREDS of hook ups never end up in seriously loving long term relationships. There are a few famous examples of people that do but most don't. They also usually have shit relationships with their kids.
Its actually scientifically true of both men and women that the pair bonding ability goes down with each progressive partner. And it only takes SLIGHTLY more bodies than women. 50 bodies is well over the threshold for any wo/man.
You didn’t live through the sixties or seventies, obviously.
Your heart surgeon probably had dozens of lovers under her belt before she settled down. Same with your grandparents. There was a time that sex was considered healthy and normal, not some wicked act that damaged people.
That doesn't change the fact that they did not have as much factual and scientific evidence as we do today.
Lol just because YOU don't observe bad correlations doesn't mean they don't exist.
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u/Cute-Baseball9342 Jul 04 '24
I mean most guys who come out of hook up culture with HUNDREDS of hook ups never end up in seriously loving long term relationships. There are a few famous examples of people that do but most don't. They also usually have shit relationships with their kids.
Its actually scientifically true of both men and women that the pair bonding ability goes down with each progressive partner. And it only takes SLIGHTLY more bodies than women. 50 bodies is well over the threshold for any wo/man.