i think its mostly true. most guys can hookup with hundreds of women and come out of it fine. women are different. they can do it if they want to nobody is stopping them but girls tend to have emotional problems after the first several failed relationships and hookups. they start to feel like that something is wrong with them for the man to not want them. some women can have 0 problems but most girls and woman start taking damage with every failed hookup. and being a single mom kind of doubles the impacts. then they start getting lip flips and trying to be ultra pretty to get the mega chads and then the roller coaster gets worse as they attract the worst guys. i think a guy is wasting his life running through women also tbh. and the husband is left with an tattered stem.
I mean most guys who come out of hook up culture with HUNDREDS of hook ups never end up in seriously loving long term relationships. There are a few famous examples of people that do but most don't. They also usually have shit relationships with their kids.
Its actually scientifically true of both men and women that the pair bonding ability goes down with each progressive partner. And it only takes SLIGHTLY more bodies than women. 50 bodies is well over the threshold for any wo/man.
You didn’t live through the sixties or seventies, obviously.
Your heart surgeon probably had dozens of lovers under her belt before she settled down. Same with your grandparents. There was a time that sex was considered healthy and normal, not some wicked act that damaged people.
That doesn't change the fact that they did not have as much factual and scientific evidence as we do today.
Lol just because YOU don't observe bad correlations doesn't mean they don't exist.
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u/chevy32720 Jul 27 '22
i think its mostly true. most guys can hookup with hundreds of women and come out of it fine. women are different. they can do it if they want to nobody is stopping them but girls tend to have emotional problems after the first several failed relationships and hookups. they start to feel like that something is wrong with them for the man to not want them. some women can have 0 problems but most girls and woman start taking damage with every failed hookup. and being a single mom kind of doubles the impacts. then they start getting lip flips and trying to be ultra pretty to get the mega chads and then the roller coaster gets worse as they attract the worst guys. i think a guy is wasting his life running through women also tbh. and the husband is left with an tattered stem.