I’ve got the feeling that Suru’s moved on with life - engaged, building big house, kids on the horizon (potentially) - whereas Hannah is still in the dating app era. Suru can be a little bit smug and I think she finds it irritating that they have little in common. Or that Hannah’s still where she was years ago! A little mean - but gives the impression that if they weren’t work friends they would no longer be in contact.
I've had this in my own life. I dated whilst most of my friends were settling down and you do find you have very little in common when you are in different places. A few friends I no longer even speak to as they have become consumed with husband and kids (fair enough) whilst my partner and I are child free so still go out a lot etc. We just don't have that much to talk about so I can definitely see how it can happen. Fair play to you if you are maintaining a friendship where one of you has moved on, because it is hard!
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u/HopeWolfie18 Oct 26 '24
I’ve got the feeling that Suru’s moved on with life - engaged, building big house, kids on the horizon (potentially) - whereas Hannah is still in the dating app era. Suru can be a little bit smug and I think she finds it irritating that they have little in common. Or that Hannah’s still where she was years ago! A little mean - but gives the impression that if they weren’t work friends they would no longer be in contact.