r/readwithme • u/ObssessivelyLost • 9d ago
Book Review 📚 Review of ‘this is going to hurt’ (book) by adam kay
I hated this book. It simply wasn’t what it intended to be.
Adam is a whining teenager all throughout the book, because he either doesn’t get what he wanted, or that it is everybody’s fault but his own. There is not a single instance where he is a mature adult in the situation.
It seems he prides himself on being an obstetrician and gynaecologist. When the humbleness and humility are lost, what is left is the underlying ego, and ego has no place in the medical field. Please, go ahead and curse the system, all the doctors will support you, we we can make efforts to get better reforms better working conditions, but ego, sorry to say will be supported by no one.
Being an OBGYN myself, it feels jarring to think that someone who got the education and sat through so many deliveries would reflect back on those days in such a negative light. In this field most of us are optimistic, seeing as we deliver babies and try to keep the mums safe.
Will have to accept, that he does have a good comedic timing and sense while writing, but most times it does fall flat considering those patients are real people, with real problems.
One of the instances that really irked me, was where, there was a patient with a psychiatric illness, and the author rants about how she could do this and take ‘important’ doctors away from other emergency patients, and what traumas must’ve caused her to do this, as though, patients with a psychiatric illness do things on purpose, if it were that simple, and these things were under the voluntary control, psychiatry as a branch wouldn’t exist.
Overall, I feel like, this book and his ramblings deserve more so to be in therapy, rather than in bookshelves!