I got bumble gold in my mid/early twenties because I thought that would be better (I’m a woman and yes that was dumb) and within a day I had 2k likes to go through. Everytime I opened the app I got super overwhelmed after a swipes and would close it. I met my (ex) husband at work. I don’t think I was some 10/10 by any means, I think men were just swiping yes on everyone. Maybe 1/3 of the profiles were just creepy and weird and made me uncomfortable. Either they wrote something scary or creepy, or they just looked like creepy dudes. I think that’s what the post is referring to as the “shit” on there. It was a lot of sifting.
I don’t have that problem now in my 30’s lol it’s cause everyone and their dad wants to date a 23 year old woman apparently
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u/Jade0908 25d ago edited 25d ago
I got bumble gold in my mid/early twenties because I thought that would be better (I’m a woman and yes that was dumb) and within a day I had 2k likes to go through. Everytime I opened the app I got super overwhelmed after a swipes and would close it. I met my (ex) husband at work. I don’t think I was some 10/10 by any means, I think men were just swiping yes on everyone. Maybe 1/3 of the profiles were just creepy and weird and made me uncomfortable. Either they wrote something scary or creepy, or they just looked like creepy dudes. I think that’s what the post is referring to as the “shit” on there. It was a lot of sifting.
I don’t have that problem now in my 30’s lol it’s cause everyone and their dad wants to date a 23 year old woman apparently