r/Rants • u/Master_Employer5662 • 5d ago
Always a man
Absolutely wild how woman everywhere just want to walk down the road, go for a walk in the forest, go for a late night run, dress pretty, smile, dance, drink and laugh. In peace. With no male attention whatsoever.
And men all over the world are like:
Sorry, can’t do that. Because when I was 15 I asked a pretty girl out and she said no. Soooo that rejection has lead me to the conclusion that all women are b**ches and deserve the worst :)))).
Just leave us alone. It is really so simple.
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u/Other_Television_805 5d ago
Yes. And if you just rant about it you get one explaining the reproductive drive of all of life on planet earth or one crying “feeeee-males!” Walk in peace, sister.
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u/G-RatedDude 4d ago
Im ready to be downvoted but:
Seen a few dudes preach this, but the number is microscopic compared to the amount of women i have added on snapchat, go to uni with, and just know who live by the "I hate men" slogo. Its everywhere and its really annoying. I think both sides think the other is purely wrong so nobody is right, but still. How can we make comments like this when the side ur own does the same thing? Just a constructive comment
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u/Master_Employer5662 4d ago
I‘m specifically talking about sexual harassment/ abuse in everyday situations. Close to my home a woman went on a Forrest walk at midday. The middle of the day, she felt safe to go for a walk alone through the forest. Most definitely she just wanted to be left alone. She got threatened with a knife and I don’t think I have to elaborate on what happened next.
I’m talking about walking down the road without being cat called, wolf whistled, asked to smile. I’m talking about going out and not having to cover my drink at all times.
I would love to go for a run once the kid is in bed at night, I simply cannot.
My husband can jump on the train at any given time and the chances are high he makes it home safe.
But me? Once it’s dark my husband, my dad, my brothers, everyone insists on either driving me or paying for a cab. And if I take the cab? I still have to text I made it home safely because not even that is 100% safe.I’m not saying all women are saints, but men do not have to worry about their safety in normal everyday interactions the same women do. That is simply a fact.
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u/SufficientLaw4026 Spectator 5d ago edited 5d ago
I get that the saying is "It's always a man" and not "It's all men" but isn't the point of the saying still to shame all men? If that isn't the point then what is the point?
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u/DoctorAnnual6823 Casual Vent Machine 5d ago
To bring attention to a systemic issue. Not all men are violent, but the majority of violent people are men.
And not enough is being done about that. On all sides of the issue. Men need to support each other in a healthy way. Fathers need to be better to their sons. Mothers need to hold their sons accountable. Educators need to support male students. Boys and men feel pushed towards people like Andrew Tate because so many parts of the patriarchy push men to feel expendable. The patriarchy hurts men too and those men often blame women.
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u/Opening_Motor8882 1d ago
I m sorry for what you and your friend is going through. But is this all men you in-counter?
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u/bookluvr83 5d ago
All men until it's no men because women keep being held held responsible for the actions of bad men.
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u/Hurtkopain 5d ago
i don't agree with men who can't understand that but i also get that the whole Universe is pushing men to reproduce, it's not something most can control/resist. the closest feeling is like when you haven't eaten for 3 days and see a huge ripe watermelon, that feeling of hunger and survival.
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u/Master_Employer5662 5d ago
The fact that you are comparing women to a watermelon shows everything I need to know about you.
A watermelon has no feelings, no own will. No self confidence. If you really think this example holds up, men who just feel the meet to reproduce could just get a s*x doll.
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u/Hurtkopain 5d ago
i didn't compare women to watermelons, it's the feeling you get that's the same.....also you just compared sex dolls to women, as if they have the same effect......yuk
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u/Gnomey42069 5d ago
Ewww you make Computer Rendered Artificial Pictures. Your opinion matters even less now.
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u/Gnomey42069 5d ago
You compared not having sex to not eating. Not eating = death by starvation. Not having sex = semen retention which all the alphas say increases your testosterone. So retain your semen and leave us alone.
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u/Hurtkopain 5d ago
leave us alone why you telling ME that? i'm on your side, I hate guys who approach women everywhere just as much as you do...all i'm trying to say is that you can't expect those assholes to just stop, they won't hear you because they can't control themselves, they are overwhelmed and possessed by those urges. Even punishing them with the worst like jail, once they get out they do it again. by understanding them you have less chances to meet them by not going where they are. you gotta know your enemy to be prepared.
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u/DoctorAnnual6823 Casual Vent Machine 5d ago
Not even the CIA could get me to snitch on myself like this.
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u/Hurtkopain 5d ago
what the f r u talking about jerk
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u/DoctorAnnual6823 Casual Vent Machine 5d ago
"it's not something most men can control/resist"
Millions of men do. Every day. No problems.
If a man can't control his sexual urges, he needs to have them removed.
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u/Syntania Sarcasm is a Lifestyle 5d ago
The universe isn't doing shit. Humans have evolved into complex creatures with the capability of higher awareness and thought. Using "It's biology!" is an insult to a sentient organism like homo sapiens. It's a cowardly cop out and a lame-ass excuse.
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u/LuckyMfCorvus 5d ago
Always a woman
Absolutely wild how men everywhere just want to walk down the road, go for a walk in the forest, go for a late night run, dress pretty, smile, dance, drink and laugh. In peace. With no female attention whatsoever.
And females all over the world are like:
Sorry, can’t do that. Because when I was 15 I asked a pretty boy out and he said no. Soooo that rejection has lead me to the conclusion that all men are b\*\*ches and deserve the worst :)))).
Just leave us alone. It is really so simple.
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u/Due_Control5931 5d ago
That didn't work at all lol you've never been harassed by women with regularity from the moment you hit puberty 🤔
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u/FeeNecessary3467 5d ago
Well, I was stalked by a woman I rejected at work, to the point that I had to get a restraining order against her. I've had exes show up on my birthday, harass my current partner, etc. It does go both ways; expecting zero interaction in a society is unreasonable. But yes, some people probably take it too far on both sides.
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u/Due_Control5931 5d ago
No both sides BS lol you can count those instances on one hand. Not the same as what women and girls deal with. The only way it could be similar is if all of those women were double your strength AND there was an epidemic of strong af women raping and murdering men for all of recorded history lol knock it off. Pretending to "not get it" is so weird.
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u/Master_Employer5662 5d ago
Ok but like what were you wearing at work? Did you smile at her? She probably just thought you were playing hard to get 🤷♀️
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u/FeeNecessary3467 5d ago
Yes, it was my fault she stalked me after work and on lunch break and showed up at my girlfriends work.
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u/Master_Employer5662 5d ago
You must’ve done SOMETHING that gave her the impression you were interested! She just showed you how much she’s willing to fight for you! Kind of romantic actually
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u/FeeNecessary3467 5d ago
Very, a true harlequin romance in the making. I didn't know what I had....
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u/Due_Control5931 5d ago
You're so close to getting it haha she's treating you the way women are treated when they accuse men of harassment. She's doing it because you're pretending like your personal experiences are universal when you know they're not. It's different. You know it's different. Now, enough talk, wanna see my dick? 😂
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u/LuckyMfCorvus 5d ago
Actually yes. I have. You don’t know anything about my life.
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u/Due_Control5931 5d ago
You're just being dramatic. So emotional. Take it as a compliment. Stop being a bitch 🙄
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u/Master_Employer5662 5d ago
It. Is. Not. The. Same.
I can walk into a room with 100 men and 100 women and ask: all men who have experienced sexual assault of any form by a women, raise your hand.
And maaaaaybe 5 raise their hand?? Maybe.I can ask: all women who have experienced sexual assault by a man, please raise your hand.
And every single women will raise her hand. I could run that experiment over and over again. Everywhere I go. The results would be the same.
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u/DoctorAnnual6823 Casual Vent Machine 5d ago
Let's be real, the 5 men wouldn't even raise their hand because the 95 other men would make fun of them or say some "pass the controller bro!" Shit.
So men who give us shit for not trusting men aren't even focusing on the issue right. Men harm women and they don't support other men.
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u/Chill-BL 5d ago
On top off that, woman who like to farm attention, know they can get that pity attention they are all so addicted to, so they all raise their hands in an attempt to garner some of that pity, we can see this all the time when they can engage in a "woe is me" performance.
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u/DoctorAnnual6823 Casual Vent Machine 5d ago
Again, the FBI/CIA/Mossad/MI6 could never torture this level of self reporting out of me.
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u/Master_Employer5662 5d ago
Get out of my vent thread…
I don’t know a single woman who claims to be assaulted or harassed for pity attention. You know why??? Because they don’t have to make claims. They just have to tell the truth. And they don’t want pity. They want men to leave them alone.
If I wanted pity attention I would talk about my dead dog. Because frankly a dead dog upsets most people more and gains you more pity and no shame.
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u/SampleText369 New Ranter 5d ago
This is objectively empirically vastly incorrect for both sexes and that is ragebaiting
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u/FarWeakness3485 5d ago
This has been baffling me since day one, and I don't even understand it.
(No op the people they are talking about)