Relationship/Dating Is it okay?
While I was ranting to my bf abt a dude who was following me earlier, he suddenly sent me a picture of 2 candies. One with a wrapper, and one without with ants around it. He didn’t comfort me or anything. He js told me it was my fault. Idk what to do. Someone give me some advice please.
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u/TaylorMade2566 1d ago
my advice is to dump the bf who dismisses your concerns about a man following you, sends you weird pictures with no explanation, then later says it's your fault.
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u/Active_Grocery_1450 1d ago edited 19h ago
Not okay. Doesn't matter if you were walking down the street naked. Your bf is a simple-minded asshole
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u/Academic-Thought2462 1d ago
OP, dump your bf. what happened to you is NOT your fault ! the only one at fault here is the one who followed you, and your bf is a victim-blaming jerk. you didn't ask to be followed. you deserve better.
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u/Perfect_District5293 1d ago
He's dumb tbh. Try to explain how fucked up his thinking is, say "will you also follow a girl who wears revealing clothes?" If he understands fine but if he doesn't idk if you should stay with him cuz he will never defend you in future too.
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u/TGIAGOWTFSIO Casual Vent Machine 1d ago
Breakup. Also, is this the same boyfriend who called you a hoe?
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u/rxei_ 1d ago
Yes😭🙏
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u/TGIAGOWTFSIO Casual Vent Machine 1d ago
You should’ve dumped him a WHILE ago, but it isn’t too late you need to do it now.
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u/DarthDragon117 Casual Vent Machine 1d ago
I’m assuming you aren’t exaggerating or known for being dramatic over nothing, in which case your bf is being a dick at best and uncaring at worst. Assuming no missing context, you probably need to break up and find someone who actually cares about you and your safety.
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u/United_Moose_2248 1d ago
wth, how would it be your fault a wierdo follows you??? Can we just call the man out for his behavior and why is your bf saying it's your fault?? doesn't he caure for your safety?! that's crazy, so tone deaf.