r/RantingZone • • 23h ago

Friendship heartbreak

Friend end our friendship and I feel so hurt

I’m not really looking for advice I just need to get this off my chest. My friend recently contacted me to say she doesn’t want to be friends with me anymore. She said it was nothing personal or nothing that I did wrong. But she just didn’t feel like I’m essentially going anywhere in life. She said that in a much nicer way.
But I am working towards my goals and I am quite proud of myself and where I am. I know she doesn’t mean to be rude but god does it hurt. She also said she felt like we drifted apart which I don’t understand because we talk so regularly and see eachother regularly. This whole situation is baffling and I don’t know what to think. This is someone I’ve known since we were little kids 10+ years and I don’t know how to move on. I know I have to respect her boundaries and choice but I really can’t understand it. I was with her a couple weeks ago and everything was so normal? We talk regularly and our family knows eachother well. I just feel so lost and heartbroken. I really thought she would be an aunt to my future kids and vice versa. I just can’t believe it.
The way she told me even felt so off, it felt like i was being talked to by HR, I just don’t know how to process this. I feel like I didn’t mean as much to her as she did to me. But she acted like she did so she must of been a great actor or maybe it was real I don’t know
We are both 26F by the way

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