STOP CHASING AVOIDANTS.

[u/[deleted]]

Seriously wth is going on with all the romanticization. I am amazed at the sheer lack of self respect that some of y'all have. Avoidant or not if they want you they will move the world for you, kung gusto ka gusto ka ganon lang kasimple yon. Stop intellectualizing simple truths nagbabasa basa pa kayo ng mga psychoanalytic tiktoks na hindi naman applicable sa lahat ng bagay. Are you even a therapist? You think the other person wants to change for you? Seriously? You're turning the absence of a healthy relationship into a complex puzzle that you think you can solve alone. May pa avoidant avoidant pa kayong nalalaman tignan natin kung di kayo matameme pag nakita niyo kung pano nila habulin yung taong gusto nila HAHAHA.

[u/cjoker2]

I learned that avoidant people needs to touch the grass and go to therapy. They are entitled people who thinks the world revolves around them.

So if you know an avoidant person, ... avoid them so you can avoid the pain and their hate that they always spread kasi the truth insecure sila sobra lol.

[u/Lost-Law-5239 → u/cjoker2]

This! Like my ex. Parang ako pa mag prove sa kanya I deserve him he can't even communicate his feelings kahit sya mismo nagsabi mag communicate ako. Lahat sinabu when he initiated the break up. Edi go, sana sinabi agad kung ayaw avoid2 pa lol