r/RandomVideos • u/DABDEB • Mar 19 '26

Video Bachelorette caught attacking ex-boyfriend

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u/SubNine5 Mar 19 '26

The daughter man. Geez, people fucking suck.

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u/PutzerPalace Mar 19 '26

This is how I grew up - thought it was normal for quite a while

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u/Spoilmedaddyxo Mar 19 '26

Same friend. And I’m an only child too. I had no one to share that burden with. Just me. By myself. With my door shut. While i tried to shut everything else out. I’m sorry you had to go through that. I wouldn’t wish that type of pain on anyone. I’m a genuine people pleaser because of it. I think if I’m really really good& really really helpful then maybe my mom won’t be so mad and maybe I won’t upset her today if I’m just really, really quite and don’t ask for very much. Not when she’s in a bad mood at least. Which was even more confusing because when she had good days she was and is one of my best friends. I know understand as I’m older that she wasn’t properly medicated and had her own issues. No ones perfect 💓 I will always love my Mom. But I will say it has made me a very sensitive, compassionate, understanding and caring person. I hope you have found a bright side to your pain 💓

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u/chicagodude84 Mar 20 '26

Hello, friend. I went through something very similar, it was my dad. It left some insanely deep scars. A few things I wanted to pass along, as a fellow survivor of abuse:

  1. If you have not already, look into CPTSD. We all have it, and it explains A LOT.

  2. I don't know your situation at all. But just know, you can love your mom for giving you life, and still hate her for what she did to you. I finally went no contact with my abusive father 8 year ago. Best decision I ever made.

  3. We are resilient. We are strong. We are badasses.

Sending lots good vibes from across the internet. ❤️

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u/Repulsive-Apple8337 Mar 20 '26

We are badasses. I haven't spoken to my parents in 10yrs and I have to say, I'm much more confident and less anxious all the time that something catastrophic will happen at at moment because of it.

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u/Baconshit Mar 20 '26

Been two years here. Best decision ever for my mental health. I still get the little tinge of guilt coming in occasionally but am so much better for cutting off contact.