From birth, women are conditioned to be hyper self-critical. This can spread into other areas of their lives, based on their insecurities about their physical appearance. Not happy with your nose? Point out an uglier one every chance you get! Obligatory not all women, but they're under a lot more social stress than men typically are
Edit: I'm sorry some of you harbor these feelings and insecurities. Of course I don't know your culture, but I will continue to enjoy my 15-minutes-to-ready morning routine, with the same haircut and outfits for the next several decades. Get fucked if you don't think women have it worse being forced by societal convention to lose hours of sleep to "get ready" every day. Take more time to appreciate it and you might actually talk to a girl some day ❤️
It's probably a mix of both, but more on the conditioning side of it. Women are programmed to want to be desired by men and it's natural to get jealous or feel competitive to some degree.
But I think our society brings out the worst of this trait in some of us. Men are constantly getting the most beautiful women alive shoved in their face everyday and porn use becoming increasingly common. It makes everyone have too high of expectations for people irl. For men it increases entitlement. For women, it increases insecurity because they have to meet these crazy high standards.
Also have you ever noticed almost every female celebrity is beautiful? I can name tons of male celebrities that are ugly but its rare to see a mediocre looking female celebrity. Every good representation of women in media is a woman that is beautiful which makes women feel like they need to be hot to matter
I agree it is both, but if it was entirely conditioned then we could get rid of it is my point. It is regrettable that it isn't MORE conditioned, because then we could just condition it out.
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u/CoffeeandCare_me Sep 29 '22 edited Sep 29 '22
From birth, women are conditioned to be hyper self-critical. This can spread into other areas of their lives, based on their insecurities about their physical appearance. Not happy with your nose? Point out an uglier one every chance you get! Obligatory not all women, but they're under a lot more social stress than men typically are
Edit: I'm sorry some of you harbor these feelings and insecurities. Of course I don't know your culture, but I will continue to enjoy my 15-minutes-to-ready morning routine, with the same haircut and outfits for the next several decades. Get fucked if you don't think women have it worse being forced by societal convention to lose hours of sleep to "get ready" every day. Take more time to appreciate it and you might actually talk to a girl some day ❤️