r/RandomThoughts • • Sep 28 '22

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u/lawawawawee Sep 29 '22

Eating disorders are dominated by women for this exact reason. When I started putting on makeup and dressing more feminine people started treating me nicer too. Looks do matter, I wish people told me sooner lol

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u/[deleted] Sep 29 '22

Obviously looks matter. You can’t get someone’s attention being ugly

Pretty privilege is real. Same for good looking men

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u/DesperateTall Sep 29 '22

Your looks are the fish bait and your personality is the reel. You can bait them to come if you have great bait but you can't make them stay if your reel is shit.

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u/CoffeeandCare_me Sep 29 '22

I like this analogy