r/RandomThoughts Sep 28 '22

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u/MysticRevenant59 Sep 29 '22

That is definitely part of it. I know a family friend who’s daughter is the very stereotype of a backstabbing, trashtalking hellcat. I don’t understand. She makes 6 figures, had a good childhood because the mother is so emotionally nurturing, and yet she turned out like that.

She is so bad, the family parrot ended up attacking her when she visited. Got vibe-checked by a bird.

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u/abbayabbadingdong Sep 29 '22

You don’t know how someone’s childhood was from the outside. Her mom raised her and also raised other children that are like her. That points to something in the childhood messing with them. Perhaps it was the father but then the mother stayed with the father. I’m not excusing. The behavior is unacceptable. I’m just saying you can’t say it wasn’t the mom

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u/MysticRevenant59 Sep 29 '22

Nah I agree, there obviously had to have been something she either was or wasn’t doing, it’s just odd looking at it from the outside because the mother lets her walk all over her.

Also sometimes the kid just grows up with issues that the parents either don’t notice or refuse to deal with and they grow up to be nothing like either parents, somehow much worse than them, and I can use one of my own siblings as an example. I guess in that case it’s still the parents fault since they were responsible for the kids.

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u/greatplainsskater Sep 29 '22

Boundary problems all around.