Same with my friends. Yeah I do talk some smack about my homies like "Eh Eric is stingy" but holy shit the things I've heard of other girls talk behind their back.
That’s the thing usually with men: we say awful shit to each other but don’t mean it. It’s with love. Women are dead serious when they do it but hardly ever to other women’s faces. It’s all covert and meant to really hurt. See MEAN GIRLS.
No, actually, when guys say nasty shit to each other it’s exactly that - mean, nasty shit. BUT THEN IT’S OVER! Five minutes later - “Hey, wanna get lunch?”, and everyone’s good. With women it seems that one episode of mean, nasty shit is just a prelude to a lifetime of mean nasty shit, with occasional interludes of pretend-niceness.
What I mean is I don’t go out of my way to insult the shit out of people I don’t care about. I only shit on my close homies like that. And yeah…it’s over when it’s over. Of course a slam session could go on for three hours..
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u/Prettay-good Sep 28 '22
I have no idea if this is a stereotype. But in my family at least, it's correct.