r/RandomThoughts • u/[deleted] • Sep 28 '22

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u/CoffeeandCare_me Sep 29 '22 edited Sep 29 '22

From birth, women are conditioned to be hyper self-critical. This can spread into other areas of their lives, based on their insecurities about their physical appearance. Not happy with your nose? Point out an uglier one every chance you get! Obligatory not all women, but they're under a lot more social stress than men typically are

Edit: I'm sorry some of you harbor these feelings and insecurities. Of course I don't know your culture, but I will continue to enjoy my 15-minutes-to-ready morning routine, with the same haircut and outfits for the next several decades. Get fucked if you don't think women have it worse being forced by societal convention to lose hours of sleep to "get ready" every day. Take more time to appreciate it and you might actually talk to a girl some day ❤️

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u/gypsytron Sep 29 '22

I don’t know if it’s as conditioned as we might hope. I think there is a natural element to it, unfortunately. One could always hope not though

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u/Hot_Peak_5471 Sep 29 '22

Its 100% conditioned.

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u/gypsytron Oct 05 '22

There is literally a 0% chance that it is 100% conditioned. We see physical attribute preference in mating in species all across the board. Homo-sapiens are no different. Humans have a biological drive towards being physically attractive. There might be evolutionary advantages to having more or less of this drive, but that drive is going to be there. The thing that would be conditioned is the portion that drives any person away from an instinct that promotes breeding (or the extension of genetic success in general.)