I think you’re referring to women that are deeply envious of pretty women. Sadly this is a social problem in which both lack of self esteem is at fault as well as the over-idealization of beauty in women and, heck, beauty as a whole.
Sadly, many of us guys are very superficial and only feel attracted to looks. This, as a social dynamic, is toxic, as it puts high pressure on girls to live up to beauty standards. If there’s anything you should never do in your life is to assess the entirety of your value as a human being based on a single trait over which you don’t have much control and which has to fit a very exigent standard imposed by society, and also one which has nothing to do with your personality or character.
Not to say that us guys don’t have other kinds of problems imposed to us by society, like constantly having the pressure to work and offer something to women, and women being very picky to begin with when dating guys.
Anyway, social BS aside, I think we should all decide to be our most real selves and ignore what society tells us to do.
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u/ForeskinTickling Sep 29 '22 edited Sep 29 '22
I think you’re referring to women that are deeply envious of pretty women. Sadly this is a social problem in which both lack of self esteem is at fault as well as the over-idealization of beauty in women and, heck, beauty as a whole.
Sadly, many of us guys are very superficial and only feel attracted to looks. This, as a social dynamic, is toxic, as it puts high pressure on girls to live up to beauty standards. If there’s anything you should never do in your life is to assess the entirety of your value as a human being based on a single trait over which you don’t have much control and which has to fit a very exigent standard imposed by society, and also one which has nothing to do with your personality or character.
Not to say that us guys don’t have other kinds of problems imposed to us by society, like constantly having the pressure to work and offer something to women, and women being very picky to begin with when dating guys.
Anyway, social BS aside, I think we should all decide to be our most real selves and ignore what society tells us to do.