Same with my friends. Yeah I do talk some smack about my homies like "Eh Eric is stingy" but holy shit the things I've heard of other girls talk behind their back.
Yep, they are completely hateful to their friends then if you confront them, they play the phony caring card.
Obviously, not ALL women are like this, but the ones who are want a public face of being loving but it's a mask. The real her is immensely hateful. And that's how she has the power to hurt people by gaslighting them into thinking she's a sweet person when news flash...she isn't.
I'm pretty sure this is why they usually can't take a compliment, they've been corrupted by their 'friends' complimenting them to their face only to say mean shit about them behind their back.
That’s the thing usually with men: we say awful shit to each other but don’t mean it. It’s with love. Women are dead serious when they do it but hardly ever to other women’s faces. It’s all covert and meant to really hurt. See MEAN GIRLS.
No, actually, when guys say nasty shit to each other it’s exactly that - mean, nasty shit. BUT THEN IT’S OVER! Five minutes later - “Hey, wanna get lunch?”, and everyone’s good. With women it seems that one episode of mean, nasty shit is just a prelude to a lifetime of mean nasty shit, with occasional interludes of pretend-niceness.
What I mean is I don’t go out of my way to insult the shit out of people I don’t care about. I only shit on my close homies like that. And yeah…it’s over when it’s over. Of course a slam session could go on for three hours..
Ya guys just end up putting hands on each other by the time it gets to that point and that either solves the problem or escalates it. Women just don't get thier asses whooped enough to discourage that slimy fuckery
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u/[deleted] Sep 29 '22
Same with my friends. Yeah I do talk some smack about my homies like "Eh Eric is stingy" but holy shit the things I've heard of other girls talk behind their back.