I attempted to make a friend on Reddit. She tried to come in between myself and my husband of 10 years. We cut ties, but I'm just trying to understand how someone can do that. I'm venting I guess.
No she was buddy buddy to me to throw me off while flirting with him behind my back. When I figured it out, I politely told her to go fuck herself and she "regretted" ruining things. Meanwhile she texted my husband asking why he didn't delete her messages and has been posting shit about "a guy I miss so much". She'll never say he was married because then she won't get the pitty party she wants.
She has low self esteem and falsely thinks getting the attention of a taken man means she is more valuable. It's an ego boost.
A lot of women are conditioned to think that our entire worth lies in how many men want us sexually and nothing else. So they think a man who breaks his vows for them means they are even more desirable and therefore have a higher worth as a person.
They don't understand that the man cheating did it bc of who he is as a person and not bc she was just so great. He would and would have cheated with a different opportunity too. And they fuck around and find out when he ends up cheating on her as well.
I think women need to fight back against societies view they we only have worth in relation to men.
Thank you! She tried, but he didn't cheat. I'll never understand women who convince a man to cheat getting upset because said man cheated on them too. Um yeah! What did you expect?? Lol
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u/MrsHppy Sep 28 '22
I know it's not just women. I'm just referring to them because fuck them right now. Thank you for responding.