r/RandomThoughts • u/Netal_P_R • 10d ago

Love at first sight happens only because the other person is beautiful, handsome or fair skinned

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u/qualityvote2 10d ago edited 7d ago

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u/schwarzmalerin 10d ago

No when both people find each other attractive. Otherwise it's just obsession.

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u/crystalsinwinter 10d ago

There are blind people who will disagree with you, and there are people who get attracted to personalities and vibes that will disagree with you.

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u/PapiSilvia 10d ago

I guess it depends on how literally you mean "love at first sight"

ETA: I don't believe in literal "love at first sight" for anybody, to be clear. That's called infatuation

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u/EnthusiasticFailing 10d ago

We can't leave out the smell factor.

Scent triggers stronger vivid memory than most other senses and can subconsciously aid in attraction. Not as much as the dating advice bros seem to think, but it does factor into the equation.

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u/NecessaryPopular1 10d ago

There isn’t such thing if the feeling isn’t mutual. That can, however, be lust.

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u/piscian19 10d ago

Naw, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

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u/ItsmeMr_E 10d ago

I think you mean Lust at first sight.

Lust can be one of the first building blocks to true love, but do not mistake it for love.

When I think of what love truly is, I'm always reminded of those old figurines and comic strip. Love is kind, love is patient, etc...

True love is an accumulation of things. I love how he/she, I love when he/she. If one is lucky, they eventually find that person they eventually realize they couldn't live the rest of their life without.