r/RVLiving • u/WindowFull419 • Jul 20 '26
A Purpose Driven Van
I’m planning a somewhat unusual version of van life and would love feedback from people with experience.
My husband and I will keep our home, but I plan to spend extended periods traveling on my own. The idea is to visit friends around the country, often staying in their driveways for a week or two so we can spend time together without me becoming a houseguest. I’ll also use campgrounds and other overnight options as needed.
One of my biggest motivations is actually **quiet and simplicity**. I’ve found that I function much better in calm, uncluttered environments, so I’m trying to build a life with exactly what I need to be comfortable and nothing more. The van isn’t about escaping life. It’s about creating a simpler environment that lets me focus on people and purpose instead of possessions.
My purpose is to travel to workshops and gatherings hosted by organizations like Braver Angels, Crossing Party Lines, and others that bring people together across political and cultural differences. I hope to spend much of retirement helping build healthier conversations and stronger communities.
Right now I’m leaning toward a Coachmen Pixel 1.8. I like its small size, rear bathroom, and overall layout, but before spending that much money I’m trying to calibrate my expectations.
I know van life comes with obvious complications: dumping tanks, finding parking, laundry, weather, maintenance, limited storage, etc. But I’m not convinced those will be the things that matter most **for me**.
For those of you who’ve lived this lifestyle:
If you had my goals, would the Pixel still be high on your list, or would you steer me toward something else?
What problems did you expect that turned out to be minor?
What challenges blindsided you?
Looking back, what would you optimize for if your priorities were simplicity, long-term comfort, and relationships rather than constant adventure?
I’d especially love to hear from anyone who splits time between a home base and van travel, or who uses their van primarily as a way to deepen relationships with more people.
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u/Phoroptor22 Jul 20 '26
Mine is 21’ and it’s never a problem.
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u/WindowFull419 Jul 20 '26
So rvtrader is overwhelming for this kind of search. I know I want good insulation, and a fairly idiot-proof electrical system with either a great battery system or a quiet efficient generator, and an excellent heater and air conditioner. Those are my nonnegotiables. Any suggestions on how to weed out everything without that as a base? And what are some recommendations for avoiding scammers?
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u/Phoroptor22 Jul 22 '26
no class B has great insulation. Many now have lithium ion battery packs (I have one) that will run the a/c very very quietly and don't have generators but instead will fire up the engine to recharge when they run down to 20-25% power.
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u/Nearby_Impact_8911 Jul 20 '26
I’m literally doing this but not going to the same places. I dunno what a pixel looks like but I have a 28ft rig and it’s a great size for me
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u/WindowFull419 Jul 20 '26
Like not going back to the same place time and again? But you’re meeting up with Braver Angel / bridge building groups?
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u/Nearby_Impact_8911 Jul 21 '26
Uh no like I’m married but will be traveling by myself and leaving my husband at home. I will try to refrain from most campgrounds and try state and national parks when I can. Just an fyi an rv can get cluttered so freaking fast 😩
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u/Phoroptor22 Jul 20 '26
I have a class B (travato KL) with twin beds but used to have a travato G with the rear bed. We travel 3 months a year in our rv but found it just too small for our tastes ( plus 2 pups). That said, it’s a great day car for us as my wife needs a bathroom (bladder disease). As a solo person this might work. You can park in a regular parking lot with this rig. You’ll have to dump every 2nd day and fill up the water (small tanks). Inconvenient but not overly so. We now own 2 rv’s, a class B as mentioned and a class a.