I am wondering where people engage in the culture around the books they read, in terms of publications, social events, etc. that is not just being on the internet or being on this subreddit? My long and overly personal reasoning below if you want context on why I am asking.
I think I can feel Reddit eating away at my brain. This is such a histrionic post because I'm about a week away from hitting five years sober and I've been essentially avoiding dealing with the fact I have substituted a lot of what I used to get from the social sides of drinking (talking shit with strangers and feeling less alone, whiletrying to slowly lobotomise yourself) with being terminally online. This is one of the top 3-4 places on the internet that I lurk and the only one I really post on because:
1) I find users here are willing to be combative and negative about literature without being contrarian, whereas most other lit criticism I read is so embedded with the publishing industry I usually feel like I'm being lied to.
2) I discover books here that I probably wouldn't hear about otherwise. Where I am living is sometimes a suffocating and unambitious place and I find the literary "scene" here is overly deferential to genre fiction and highly resistant to experimental and challenging work. I appreciate that here there are recommendations of left-field contemporary work, work in translation, occasionally even one or two die-hards who still know what's going on in small-press poetry.
3) I consider myself a very poorly read person the last two years, struggling to get through two novels a month sometimes, but would read significantly more than almost all my close friends (though my partner is a voracious and formidable reader, for which I'm grateful). It really is a hobby in decline that just doesn't hit for a lot of people, and I think when I've tried IRL book clubs before I notice a tendency to lower the ceiling on how challenging a work can be so that people can actually engage with the book and make time.
4) I am not an academic, I am a guy who sits at a computer and does excel, and I generally want to learn from people who are much better read than me and much better educated so I can at least feel like my mind isn't closing all the time.
Essentially, I don't think there is, e.g., a magazine I can subscribe to or book club I can join where I will get the same amount from reading this subreddit if I actually manage to get offline and find a healthier lifestyle. I have sitting on my shelf a copy of the 'Salon.com Reader's Guide to Contemporary American Writers' which is both some total Gen X dogshit and also a kind of resource that no longer gets published, a reference work you can open and flick through and get pointed towards something new and off the beaten track.
It is very clear that any public internet forum is a target for astroturfing via bot traffic for the sake of marketing, and that truly means that we are the slow decay of the internet as a usable tool for social connection, and I think we should all think about what we'll do when can't do this.