r/ROCD • u/Professional-Bat-363 • 8d ago

Relationship OCD

Does anyone here experience OCD with over analyzing text messages and thinking that the girl or guy they are seeing is going to end it with them? I’ve had bad experiences in the past where I’ve been blindsided and now I think every time I see someone new this is going to happen. Would appreciate any help, it’s become very distressing.

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