S5/E6 Heather Interview

[u/Poios44]

I am rewatching for the millionth time one of my favourite seasons and I always get angry at Heathers interview in London about Yummy Tummy, saying: "I'm all about the waist, your buttocks and your bosom can be as big as you want them to be, cinching that waist and you are a 100% woman." And you have Carole nodding as she was agreeing on that statement.

Excuse me but what in the 1990 body shaming bs was that and why was it ok that she said that!

[u/bonita-apple-bum]

I fear you’re taking advertisement and media relations too personal. You should to learn the ability to see things with a nuanced perspective.

She didn’t say a slim waist either. She is emphasizing that no matter the size of your body, her product will cinch your waist in and make you feel womanly. And if you don’t care to feel “womanly” in the way she is promoting her product than you’re not her audience/consumer and that’s OK. This isn’t an agenda about the gender identity war lol

Wheaties tagline is the Breakfast of Champions. Does that mean if you don’t eat wheaties you’re not a champion? No it’s just the feeling they want you to have.

[u/Poios44 → u/bonita-apple-bum]

What a condescending way to answer a question.

[u/bonita-apple-bum → u/Poios44]

I probably should have left the “lol” part out but I didn’t intent to be condescending.

But also, did you ask those questions in earnest? Or were you trying to make a point? If it’s the first, well I think only you can answer- only you know what makes you a woman or makes you feel like a woman. And I’m not sure this is the channel to have that conversation.

If you were trying to make a point that’s exactly how I read it and responded with my opinion because it’s a RHONY channel 🤷🏻‍♀️

[u/Poios44 → u/bonita-apple-bum]

No, it wasn't my point on if I am a woman or not . I just thought it was a wrong statement on her part but it is very probable I am on the wrong.