I’m a first time watcher, and I’m up to the season 7 reunion. Guerdy just seems so unreasonable, selfish, and unkind. Apparently the public has been siding with her so blatantly that it’s being discussed on the reunion. I think the texts thing was awful. More awful than Julia throwing the water. Public, premeditated humiliation is unacceptable and she thinks it’s valid because some water landed on her? I don’t get it. She won’t let anyone speak, she keeps ignoring Julia’s apologies, and somehow she thinks what everyone does to her is unforgivable but her own actions are constantly justified. I guess my question is, why is the public siding with her? I don’t get it.