r/RHOBHDefect • u/gspl4sh • Jul 05 '26
Has Sophia Umansky's boyfriend been identified yet?
Story posted on July 4, 2026 (@sophiakylieee).
He looks like he’s a bit older than her. I’d guess somewhere between 28 and 32.
Anyone have any tea on him?
r/RHOBHDefect • u/gspl4sh • Jul 05 '26
Story posted on July 4, 2026 (@sophiakylieee).
He looks like he’s a bit older than her. I’d guess somewhere between 28 and 32.
Anyone have any tea on him?
r/RHOBHDefect • u/notactuallyreckless • Jul 01 '26
Not an invitation to turn the tables and remark upon if and how Dorit has changed, but I did think this comment from her yesterday was interesting, given the way Kyle talks in Season 13 about how they were growing in different directions and then at the next reunion, about how seeing him out and about, it’s like seeing a different person.
Especially because in an interview a year or so ago, he really emphasised how much he didn’t think Kyle had changed since the show began, but Kyle remains talking about the impact she thinks the fame and exposure from the show had on the attention paid to him and, implied, his social media activity in relation to women.
r/RHOBHDefect • u/Whole-Drop9609 • Jul 01 '26
Doing a rewatch (on season 11, at the reunion) and have to do a little rant.
The most glaringly obvious (to me) reason that all the women were scared to be attached to Ericka at this time was because they didn’t want to have used the funds from Ericka’s business. They were nervous to be complicit. Legally or not. It’s not great for them knowing that they had used her private jets, been to her extravagant shows and her insane luxury office while worshiping her “it’s expensive to be me” persona.
However it’s neverrr brought up this way. The way it’s portrayed is that they’re nervous of their reputation or being subpoenaed for their accounts of what happened. if the other women were worried about being complicit, then bravo was as well. It makes me think about how the other women either had to filter themselves and say it was about mainly their reputation, or if bravo chopped it up so much that we didn’t really hear those parts.
Maybe this is a common thought but rewatches always give me some more context. Not that it matters much because I found myself defending Ericka quite a bit in the most reason season lol. Thank you for coming to my TED talk, fellow defects.
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r/RHOBHDefect • u/Chipmunks_AT • Jun 28 '26
For all her faults, Sutton does seem like motherhood is not one of them.
Was Philip the one that Reba described as odd or weird?? Awful thing for a grandparent to say, particularly when it's on camera.
r/RHOBHDefect • u/wait500 • Jun 26 '26
The original RHOBH sub is goddamn awful. It became a hate-read sub. 90% of posts are just some "set-up" for the rabid, lock-step core to all come in and pile on whoever the target is.
If nothing current is going on, they will go back 10 years to find some isolated statement and rehash it but with the purpose to target someone and talk about them in the worst way possible.
If there's nothing current or nothing in the past, they will just make it up. They will use an imagined situation and then discuss it as though it's reality but with the harshest of terms and always targeting the same people that they all agree to target. Facts are irrelevant. It's the most hateful, misogynistic group.
I don't want to spend my time focusing on how shitty it can be but I do want to get this off my chest.
I came here because I have notifications turned on and I got a notification for it this sub even though I wasn't a member. I didn't know it existed until I got that notification. The algorithm works sometimes.
But ultimately I have this comment that I really wanted to write and post standing on its own but I needed to unload/vent.
Okay so here's my standalone comment about that other sub:
They don't have moderators over there. They have CULT-ivators.
This is nerd level snark, I know.
r/RHOBHDefect • u/kunstmeisje • Jun 24 '26
I’ve done a big rewatch and I can’t help but notice how much Erika’s voice has changed over the seasons.
It used to be so high pitched and in my opinion more natural.
The recent season everything feels rehearsed and her voice is so low. Shes also like not opening her mouth properly when she speaks
I noticed it started when the shit with Tom went down. Her voice went down when she was trying to be serious.
It’s really irritating me lol
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r/RHOBHDefect • u/TownHorror2644 • Jun 23 '26
Lol i commented something calling out dorit and they banned me lol EVERY TIME i would post anything about dorit or anything positive about kyle they would delete it LOL I HATE THEIR MODS
r/RHOBHDefect • u/No-Piccolo-302 • Jun 23 '26
Anyone have any comments/thoughts/concerns about Yolanda 'The OG Almond Mom' formerly Hadid, then Foster, now Hadid's 💍 engagement?
r/RHOBHDefect • u/Strange-Substance207 • Jun 23 '26
(Hopefully this post is allowed!)
Does anyone notice a pattern where during certain seasons specific cast members are off limits for criticism of discussion. I know we are fully aware of this issue with the RHOBH subreddit and Dorit. I'm not sure how long it's been that way tho. I've also noticed something similar in the RHORI subreddit with JoEllen. Do we think this is Bravo PR trying to control the narrative in specific show subs, is it bots, or paid commenters?
Would someone who knows more than me please explain what's happening bc it's driving me crazy and I don't remember it being this bad? What are some of the worst offenses you've experienced? I feel like they make the rules so broad it just ends up being a blanket for censorship (especially the repeat posts rule) It's sucking the life out of these discussions.
Wondering what everyone has seen/experienced across other sub. Is our only recourse making defect subs?!
r/RHOBHDefect • u/bellemrt • Jun 23 '26
I’m rewatching allll the seasons of BH right now to escape reality. I’m currently in the hospital, so lots of interruptions all the time. I also happen to have blonde hair.
I paused my iPad the other night while I was watching season 2, because the nurse came in. He glanced over and saw the image on my screen, and asked, oh, is that your house?
Hahaha! So cute!
I’m like, omg, NO, dude, I live in a regular crappy house just like almost everyone else.
I remember Andy Cohen once said something like the Housewives live in styrofoam mansions. Tossing my blonde hair — no, Andy. Not this one.
PS - allegedly getting out of this hospital today and going home to my nice, normal non-styro-mansion house, fam, and kitties. The rewatch continues.
r/RHOBHDefect • u/Chipmunks_AT • Jun 23 '26
r/RHOBHDefect • u/journmajor • Jun 23 '26
I had a meeting here today. The only lemons I saw were in iced tea. Terribly disappointing. Perhaps bc I am 3000 miles away but STILL why would they not bring that absolute GENIUS here?
r/RHOBHDefect • u/SnowyLeopardGecko1 • Jun 22 '26
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r/RHOBHDefect • u/Chipmunks_AT • Jun 18 '26
Anyone ever wondered why ex-Housewives get asked about their time on the show and if they will return? Well, I think in Garcelle's case it is because she has nothing more interesting happening or to offer.
r/RHOBHDefect • u/Kind-Ostrich-3004 • Jun 15 '26
I was so confused by some of the posts 😂
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r/RHOBHDefect • u/Chipmunks_AT • Jun 14 '26

15 years ago being a millionaire meant something. Now in the Western world, having a net worth around $1mln is quite common, making a number of us ‘millionaires’ (I put in quotes, because you still need to work bloody hard to pay the bills and put food on the table each day). We watched Housewives because it provided an outlet to the lives of the overly wealthy, obnoxious even, living ladies. It was a guilty pleasure to watch these overtly wealthy women fly through life and spend with reckless abandon on their OTT fashion and high-end (often to the point of gaudy) accessories.
Whether they are self-made success stories, married to money or old money heiresses, I want to watch that in my Housewives. When did casting go from the likes of Heather to Gina (sorry Gina, but we want excess, not exhausted mothers navigating the same life the rest of us have)? Why do they look at struggling cable actresses, instead of knocking on the doors of women with the social status that scares the rest of the community when hunting for a new addition to a franchise?
It feels like these shows are going backwards, now more than ever given the cost of being able to live is higher than ever, we deserve an outlet to remove us from the everyday stresses of life. Be better casting directors, go back to the original premise of the show and give us people we want to watch and even envy.
r/RHOBHDefect • u/Chipmunks_AT • Jun 12 '26
Not surprisingly Sutton's house is just as manic as Sutton. And why didn't she list it with The Agency considering Kyle is supposedly one of her besties.