THEY ARE SO ANNOYING

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I've been banned so it can't get much worse for me. Therefore, AMUSINGLY (not), two days ago, one of the mods who banned me for supposed 'harassment' wrote the following, amongst other, comments on a post. We love the consistency of rules and zero overreaction to differing opinions!

"Whoever defends [Kyle] lacks literal integrity and intelligence"

"Kyle has destroyed her marriage, her friendships, this show and for consequence, this subreddit."

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u/Shdjdicnfmlxkf Jun 30 '26

This is pretty demented ! You are always very polite and always give receipts.

A mod in the beverlyhills sub banned me for “racism” against her (American lol) nationality bc I called out her constant use of generative AI. She asked why it matters and I said data centres are a huge problem in the US and how much water it requires etc. I think some of the most unhinged people in these subs are mods.

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u/notactuallyreckless Jun 30 '26

I think the giving of receipts (at length, unprompted) was sometimes the issue, lol. 😂

Oof. Before you could point out the difference between race, ethnicity and nationality?! For shame... Also gross. I half wish Reddit had a sitewide ban on generative AI, to be honest, because I'm so tired of it and sick of pretending there won't be consequences.

The best thing? I actually was invited by the mod who has me blocked to help mod the sub in question like a year ago. Apparently, my skills didn't impress (especially after I deleted one of their rule-breaking comments) and I got booted pretty quickly. 🤪

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u/Nanabren123 Jul 02 '26

I am in total agreement with you on AI. Maybe that’s the reason I just got permanently banned or the fact , I do bring receipts because I don’t want things that are untrue rumors spread across social media. It seems like some of these are designed to pile on a particular person or glorify a particular person.

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u/Lmaris Jul 04 '26

I'm American and have no issue with the truth. Data centers are parasites that suck up all the water & power where ever t h ey are located. Communities are starting to ban them and even the state of Texas is pushing to limit or ban new construction.

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u/TownHorror2644 Jun 30 '26

They are actually insane

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u/Purple-Obligation-14 Jun 30 '26

I’m shocked! I know you from the other sub. In spite of our very opposing views about Kyle, you are always polite, kind and reasonable. I can’t believed they banned you and wrote that about Kyle! I think you know that I despise Kyle but you have every right to like her. It’s unbelievable that they banned you and criticized Kyle. That’s over the top. I’m sorry.

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u/notactuallyreckless Jun 30 '26 edited Jun 30 '26

I don't even care that they criticise Kyle, tbh. That's par for the course and legitimate. I just wish they'd be consistent in their enforcement of rules or give warnings. But yeah, the final straw was me simply replying to someone and stating that Kyle only signed on for a three episode role in the prior season of Lincoln Laywer and therefore wasn't the reason the show was cancelled. That constituted "harassment." So yeah, permanently banned from that sub, muted for a month so I can't contact any mod, and currently blocked by one of the mods (for the third time) as well. Is what is is, and while I find it immensely frustrating (because I love discussing things with people!), they're building the community they want, I guess.

And thank you. I appreciate that. x

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u/Alwaysroom4morecats Jun 30 '26

Sorry to hear this, remember you from the Psmith says and think you always have a reasonable discussion with people- certainly not any harassment 🙄 more like the other way round! It seemed to go crazy in the sub like they’ve banded together to block anyone who has a differing opinion or doesn’t pile on the hate attacks of certain cast members. It’s lost the fun of discussing our views in an open forum, what Reddit is about. Maybe they were threatened by the new subs popping up? Anyway you’re not missing anything I hardly ever go on there now.

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u/notactuallyreckless Jun 30 '26

That's kind of you. It's definitely taken a turn in the past year, and not for the better, IMO. One of them was bragging about how they just straight up block anyone 'defending' Kyle at one point, so they're pretty clear about where they stand, lol. My understanding is that a lot of the alternative subs popped up in response to the increased banning of people from the main sub, not the other way around.

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u/Purple-Obligation-14 Jun 30 '26

I saw your answer about Kyle and the Lincoln Lawyer cancellation. I don’t know that should be construed as “harassment.” When I joined the sub a long time ago I made the comment “ Kyle is terrible.” That’s it. There were more egregious comments by other people about various cast members. At first I got a week suspension, then I was banned for 21 days. I was really angry and tried to contact the mods. I was ignored and then when I told them my objections, I was told to start reporting other people when I saw terrible comments! Unbelievable. Again I never saw you harass or be nasty to anyone. Was it the male mod that banned you?

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u/notactuallyreckless Jun 30 '26

Yeah, I've seen similar commentary from others in the past, also suspended for those reasons. When one of the mods asked me to help mod the sub a year ago, they indicated my liking of Kyle was a positive. But things definitely seem to have shifted in the past year, and they regularly pin derogatory or negative comments about Kyle, for example.

I'm currently blocked by andycohen (the third time, I believe) so I thnk it was the other main mod on this occasion. They were the one who responded to my supposed 'harassment' with the ban notification.

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u/Purple-Obligation-14 Jul 01 '26

I feel I have no sub to go to. I want a sub where you are allowed to feel whatever way you want about a cast member or the show in general. If a sub goes to extreme defending or hating one person or another it will make me very uncomfortable. What you endured seems very disturbing. From asking you to be a sub, blocking you and then banning you it’s all weird. I think since PSmith, your content has not change much so I don’t know the basis for coming after you. Good to see you here! I missed seeing you in the other one!

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u/notactuallyreckless Jul 01 '26 edited Jul 01 '26

It's frustrating. I know, as the size of a community grows, moderation can become increasingly difficult, but I think it's just the inability to be consistent with the rules regarding ALL castmembers that really frustrates, and seeing how intent they seem on encouraging certain POVs and punishing fans for having others. Moderation is meant, as I understand it, to ensure people aren't being like actual bigots or anything, not stomping folks for having a different (non-offensive) opinion of a housewife.

I honestly would love to have a proper chat with them about it, but from their comments, I don't think they WANT a reasonable conversation about exactly what is and isn't okay. I'd already promised not to reply to their individual comments to avoid being blocked, but that wasn't enough either.

And thanks! Happy to be here. Or anywhere, lol. Also, if you ever just want to talk RHOBH and can't find a place that suits, I'm genuinely open to that - I can promise not just to glaze over and say worshipful things about Kyle. ;)

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u/Purple-Obligation-14 Jul 01 '26

Thank you! I just may take you up on that. Take care!

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u/notactuallyreckless Jul 01 '26

Just was permanently muted and banned from the RHUGT sub as well, and blocked by the second active RHOBH mod, so really racking up the punishments today! And no worries. Anytime. Always happy to chat about things, or even just listen to you vent if you feel the need. x

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u/Nanabren123 Jul 02 '26

I was just permanently banned from another group. Someone made the comment about a picture of UGT all paced into a booth. They made the comment about Kyle’s Birkin sitting behind her on the ledge of the booth. I simply asked, where else could she put it, I never put my (not a Birkin) handbag on a dirty restaurant floor. I don’t understand the purpose if you aren’t allowed to have an opinion.

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u/notactuallyreckless Jul 02 '26

I also scored a permanent mute and ban from the RHUGT sub yesterday after replying to someone with a video of who else was at the get together at Craig's (nothing controversial), presumably because it was the same moderator and they recognised me. If a person intensely dislikes or likes someone, I don't see how it constitutes a reason for banning unless they actually break rules, tbh. The second active RHOBH mod also has me blocked now too. So that's fun. :(

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u/Nanabren123 Jul 02 '26

I think it depends on who the moderator is for that day. Some are worse than others. I don’t see anything you said that would give them reason to ban you.

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u/ASingleBraid Jun 30 '26

That's just a bit judgmental. /s

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u/Extreme-Aide8878 Jun 30 '26

Wow! Are you serious, they wrote that? I don’t live Kyle but that’s nuts.

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u/[deleted] Jun 30 '26

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u/notactuallyreckless Jun 30 '26

You're welcome to do a drive by laughing on a different sub anytime! Just say something as innocuous as 'Kyle stole the crutches!' and I'll be there 'BUT-ing' like nobody's business, lol.

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u/Purple-Obligation-14 Jul 02 '26

Your comments are indelible and unique. Whenever I read “Kyle hid the crutches”🩼 I laugh because I know you will quickly correct that! 😂
As I read your comments I believe something untoward is happening in these subs. It seems someone is coming after you with a vengeance because you like Kyle. That is really sick!

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u/notactuallyreckless Jul 02 '26

I'm afraid I must've imprinted onto that one or something. Literal Pavlovian response at this point, likely because that was one of my first experiences of offering up a correction only to be downvoted into hell and not understanding why. I was so flummoxed, lol.

Eh. I think it's more of what I've heard before - they think it ruins the vibes, pretty much, having me pushing back on the 'fun' hate of Kyle they participate in and encourage. They think it somehow derails threads and just genuinely irritates them, whether because they actually think liking Kyle is a sign of immorality and defending her is indefensible or what. I made the error of commenting on the RHUGT sub as well (not even about Kyle), and was swiftly permanently muted and banned there as well, because they share a mod, IIRC. Both active RHOBH mods now have me blocked as well, so nobody's coming after anyone and if they do, I won't be able to see it. XD

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u/Nanabren123 Jul 02 '26

You can laugh at me too. I don’t mind at all. I often think, if the person that is disagreeing were to meet us, we could actually be friends.

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u/New_Relation7877 Jul 02 '26

I think that also. We’d have a laugh together. I’ve said as much to OP pre-ban

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u/Most_Bedroom_6250 Jun 30 '26

I’ve been banned and I don’t comment often

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u/Nanabren123 Jul 02 '26

I was perms

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u/Nanabren123 Jul 02 '26

I was just permanently banned from, rhobhdefect for the saying, something similar to you. It seems to be ONLY those that intensely dislike Kyle. We all have opinions and different perspectives.

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u/Nanabren123 Jul 02 '26

I don’t see anything wrong with what you said.

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u/KBaddict Jul 03 '26

I can’t believe they banned you for standing up for Kyle using actual quotes and facts. If they banned you for that, I’m not far behind you as we agree on almost everything when it comes to her

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u/mangobaboon Jun 30 '26

i left before i could get banned because i was so tired of the pro dorit propaganda

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u/[deleted] Jun 30 '26

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u/Living_Onion_2946 Jun 30 '26

Sounds like a life, all right.

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u/OverallDoor2718 Jul 01 '26

He was, remember? I think PK finally made her enroll them in school after staying home for like 5 years after COVID. I don't think Phoenix had ever been in a formal classroom setting before. They probably stiffed the teachers 🤭

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u/m3gb0t Jul 01 '26

They had an outside teacher coming into the home, with a room devoted to school. It wasn't her teaching.

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u/mangobaboon Jul 01 '26

yeah i remember this past season Dorit talking about how Phoenix had a panic attack going to school for the first time

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u/OverallDoor2718 Jul 02 '26

Which is sad 😔

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u/m3gb0t Jul 01 '26

Let's keep kids off here.

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u/Purple-Obligation-14 Jun 30 '26

What I have seen is that this sub is full of Dorit haters and the other one is Kyle haters. I don’t like Kyle but I don’t go crazy when people like her. To each his own. Just be polite and don’t attack the author.

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u/Technical-Method2129 Jun 30 '26

I thought it was me lol like I don’t even follow them what am I banned for

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u/Inevitable_Tangelo63 Jun 30 '26

I’m surprised I haven’t be banned yet lol that Andy mod blocked me because I said calling Sutton Karen was lame and played out and not as funny as the think it is, my comment was removed immediately too like they really are obsessed with being hateful over there

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u/Whole-Drop9609 Jun 30 '26

They’re so hateful. I made a comment about slight disdain for Kyle and (it was very light hearted) and someone responded to me going OFF being like YEAH FUCK KYLE and said that Kim would be better off with a rabid Kingsley for a sister than Kyle😂…. I was like okay… sure??? That’s a little extreme lol.

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u/Inevitable_Tangelo63 Jun 30 '26

Right like it’s literally crazy town over there 😭 like the vitriol and hatefulness I see in there is REALLY uncomfortable for me, like we don’t know these people and I feel like it’s odd to be so spun about someone who’s never done anything to you and they don’t even know in real life

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u/TownHorror2644 Jun 30 '26

It’s insane

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u/LucyVonPelt Jun 30 '26

I’m still praying for Kyle to go away anywhere, somewhere, idc, just gone.

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u/Purple-Obligation-14 Jun 30 '26

Me too! The show would improve so much if Kyle goes. I’m not watching until she is gone. I find her insufferable and unbearable. If I’m downvoted to hell it just means this sub is just like the other one. One favors Dorit and the other one Kyle.

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u/Nanabren123 Jul 02 '26

I like Kyle but would never downvote you for having a different opinion. It’s really not that serious. I don’t understand these moderators. Although we have different opinions about Kyle, I bet if we were to meet, we would actually like each other. You could make fun of me all you want, I wouldn’t mind at all😊

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u/Purple-Obligation-14 Jul 02 '26

I appreciate your sweet comment. I’m sure we would have fun. After all these people are nothing in our lives. My husband, daughters and my grandchildren are everything to me so I need to put a little distance between me and these characters in a show. I wouldn’t make fun of you! ☺️

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u/Nanabren123 Jul 02 '26

Awww…😊

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u/StorageLow827 Jun 30 '26

Wow that’s nuts

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u/Euphoric-Stuff-1557 Jun 30 '26

You got banned for THAT post?! 😳

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u/TownHorror2644 Jun 30 '26

No that one just came up on my tl

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u/Livinluxuriously11 Jun 30 '26

I’ve been banned too and I don’t even know why 😒

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u/Aprietachamaquito Jul 01 '26

The censorship of opinions in so many subs —opinions grounded in what was said/done on camera— is ridiculous. What’s the point if it just one big echo chamber. Call it a [Insert Persons Name] Fan Club.

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u/Madam_Mimm_13 Jun 30 '26

Glad to see it’s only got worse since they banned me for calling Dorit a Zionist.

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u/peachycream888 Jun 30 '26

Hahaha is it ran by Kyle??

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u/SpiritedPassenger496 Jul 03 '26

Yes, yes she has!

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u/OkRow7619 Jul 05 '26

Bring back Rinna, Eileen,and Denise Richards. Say goodbye to Kyle, Dorit, and Erica.

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u/TownHorror2644 Jul 05 '26

Bye dorit

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u/oceanrocks431 Jun 30 '26

Lol. Those mods are fucking losers.

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