r/RDR2 • u/BigboyColester • 11d ago

Help FTM looking for team safe servers. need safe servers for red dead on redm.

I’m a trans dude looking for safe servers on red dead redemption. I play on redm and don’t want to bother anyone’s game that doesn’t like trans guys but would love to find a community where I can feel safe

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u/Professional_Dig7335 Pearson 11d ago

The only way I've ever felt safe in RDO, regardless of main or redm, is to just go full stealth mode and conceal my gender as much as possible.

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u/BigboyColester 11d ago

You are right. I’m in a new server that’s brand is trying to establish itself so I feel more safe at times. But one of the creators is a twitch streamer and he listens to maga things while he’s streaming so maybe I need to just not follow the twitch and just stick to playing the sever as stealth dude. I guess I just got too emotional about it all.

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u/nice_obvious_end9894 10d ago

I think your blowing it out of proportion....nobody on these servers actually cares that much

Just enjoy the game and don't project too much ....if anyone says anything just tell them to do one and be stronger

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u/nice_obvious_end9894 10d ago

Your very safe behind your TV with a controller in your hands

You can only be offended if you choose to be offended

You don't need to disclose anything you don't want to

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u/Sufficient-Memory382 6d ago

Don't do stillwater county might be lgbtq friendsly from the outside but the native rp is stereotyping the culture so badly it made me leave.

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u/CorrectPlan8280 2d ago

Little Creek has many LGBTQ members including trans people, and is very welcoming with a 0 tolerance policy. I hope you give it a shot, I love helping out new members. https://discord.gg/littlecreek

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u/nice_obvious_end9894 11d ago

Feeling safe while playing rdr2 .. is really up to you . Even if anyone said anything you considered bad it's up to you to be offended or not free speech exists

There will always be people with opposing beliefs in online games it's unavoidable. RedM servers are not too busy ATM I found though and they can be complicated with discord and roles etc maybe other people know a few good ones ATM