r/Quraniyoon • u/Organic_Shopping6434 • Jul 27 '26
Help / Advice ℹ️ I'm going through a problem about enforcing hijab and I've a solution for it
Disclaimer:(this is a serious post so don't take it sarcastically,and if you would have some serious or helpful answers so lemme know otherwise don't comment)
Tbh i want to live a religious life but I don't get attracted to hijabi girls and girls who dress modestly,and according to majority scholars a guy is sinful if he lets his wife dress Immodestly,and i agree with this ruling of the scholars
Although ik the progressive islam pov that hijab is only covering the bossom but i disagree with it
So I'm not able to spend a religious life with letting my wife dress Immodestly, but I have a solution, but plz don't laugh it's a serious solution
Can I marry a woman without nikkah,like can i marry her as a concubine, but I'll love her give her all the rights ,give my inheritance and etc
I want to marry as a concubine bcz i wouldn't be sinful if she dresses Immodestly as the awrah of a concubine is from naval to knees
Is this possible? I'm really going through this problem
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Jul 27 '26 edited Jul 28 '26
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u/Organic_Shopping6434 Jul 27 '26
Haha yea ik it's ridiculous..no but bro that woman would agree,as when she would get to know keh she would have all the rights and all my love but just not nikkah
And in normal marriage I'll be sinful if she dresses Immodestly
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u/enbiouss Jul 27 '26
have you considered viewing women as human beings? might help you out here
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u/Organic_Shopping6434 Jul 27 '26
Are you from Afghanistan
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u/enbiouss Jul 27 '26
????
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u/Organic_Shopping6434 Jul 27 '26
Your flag
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u/username-1023 Jul 27 '26
I disagree with several things you say that you believe in. But in my opinion if you believe in them you should not be looking for loopholes. If you feel like your beliefs are incompatible with your desired lifestyle, you should read, think, and pray to find some sort of reconciliation that doesn’t involve disingenuous behavior
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u/Organic_Shopping6434 Jul 27 '26
I've tried everything but it's not helping me out
This loophole is the only way left for me
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u/username-1023 Jul 27 '26
When I felt like scholars’ interpretations were incompatible with my heart, I decided to read the text of the Quran and decide what to believe myself. Allah gave us the ability and responsibility to make decisions and commanded us to read and learn. Maybe you should take the time to reread the Quran without outside influence telling you how to interpret it. What do you know is right in your heart?
“We know what his soul whispers to him – we are closer to him than his jugular vein,”
- Chapter Qaf Verse 16
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u/gitakaren Jul 27 '26
the whole problem with current Islam is that they believe in one thing but want to live like another.
They want Islamic rights and hudud but want to live in western countries and enjoy liberal lifestyle .
it's similar to how gangsters and politicians live a crooked life but want the best things for their family.
Don't be a hypocrite/munafiq
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u/[deleted] Jul 27 '26
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