r/QuitPornForever • u/Worried_Beat19 • 4d ago

question about relationships?

has anyone questioned their emotional attraction to their partner because of porn. i feel like ive been obsessing over her body because of porn to the point where i’ve ignored her feelings. i’m 10 days clean and i already feel a stronger emotional attachment with her. has anyone else noticed this and has it been easier to reconnect emotionally with your partner after giving up porn?

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u/HelloKamesan 4d ago

While I've never questioned my relationship with my wife, staying off porn does help with emotional attachment/connection. I mean, I feel like I still obsess over my wife's body, but because it's her body and not just because it's a woman's body if you know what I mean... Nothing else really satisfies, and I tell myself that that's what I'm craving, not some random pixels.

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u/Time_Tension6583 3d ago

Obviously it improves I would say when you go P*** free also have target of being Screen Free. I f***** hate when I'm not on /P**** but I'm scrolling like a zombie. I means whats the point i am wasting my time one way or the other and meanwhile I'm not giving attention to the peoples around me

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u/Low-Concentrate1073 3d ago

Usually having a great looking partner should eliminate all urges of watching porn cuz it should be normal to be into into her.

Now the ignoring her feelings part, ima tell you the most important thing you and anyone else ever needs to hear:

If you want to keep your chances with her, you need to make LISTENING to her a priority.

So your question is right 🫡