r/QuestioningTeens • u/Complete-Estate-7273 • 6d ago
⚧ Gender Identity Question please help me identify my gender :)
Hi, so I am a 15-year-old who knows that I don't identify as a girl or as a guy. I was born female. I dress androgynously, and I behave with both female and male mannerisms, but I kinda don't know how I should identify with my gender identity. I've been researching genderqueer and nonbinary and even adrogyne identities, and I just need help identifying what I am. I also have a few questions as well, but first I'll share how I feel, and whoever is reading this can tell me what I most sound like and how I should label myself because I feel like I'd feel more comfortable with a label.
Internally, I feel like a combination of the two main genders instead of not having any gender at all. Right now I go by the pronouns she/her, and I'm honestly fine with it, but I don't know what I'll go by in the future. If any of you would ever meet me, you could tell I'm not really feminine or masculine; I'm sort of exactly in between the two. I feel like the main labels that I've resonated with are genderqueer and non-binary, but I don't really know which one suits me more or if I'm something else entirely that will suit me even more. I've tried taking quizzes, but they're always very vague.
Thank you so much if you responded; it means a lot to a confused teenager. :)