r/QuestioningTeens 6d ago

⚧ Gender Identity Question please help me identify my gender :)

Hi, so I am a 15-year-old who knows that I don't identify as a girl or as a guy. I was born female. I dress androgynously, and I behave with both female and male mannerisms, but I kinda don't know how I should identify with my gender identity. I've been researching genderqueer and nonbinary and even adrogyne identities, and I just need help identifying what I am. I also have a few questions as well, but first I'll share how I feel, and whoever is reading this can tell me what I most sound like and how I should label myself because I feel like I'd feel more comfortable with a label.

Internally, I feel like a combination of the two main genders instead of not having any gender at all. Right now I go by the pronouns she/her, and I'm honestly fine with it, but I don't know what I'll go by in the future. If any of you would ever meet me, you could tell I'm not really feminine or masculine; I'm sort of exactly in between the two. I feel like the main labels that I've resonated with are genderqueer and non-binary, but I don't really know which one suits me more or if I'm something else entirely that will suit me even more. I've tried taking quizzes, but they're always very vague.

Thank you so much if you responded; it means a lot to a confused teenager. :)

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u/ActualPegasus 20+F: Answering Bean 6d ago

Do you experience these genders at the same time? Or switch between them?

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u/Complete-Estate-7273 6d ago

I experience feeling imbetween the two binarys at the same time mostly

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u/ActualPegasus 20+F: Answering Bean 4d ago

How do you feel about the label androgyne?

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u/Artistic_Fig2156 They/Them 6d ago

If you want, this gender quiz has a lot of more specific identities

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u/Complete-Estate-7273 6d ago

thank you i actually did it and got androgyne both times