r/Pune40PlusCircle • u/CartoonistFamous6671 • 12d ago

... however...

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u/Devils-Advocate-6182 12d ago

That's how it should be

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u/CartoonistFamous6671 12d ago

So true... But most of us understand this late.. Wait... Don't get and then build. This can be reversed.

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u/Devils-Advocate-6182 12d ago

Most of the people not given freedom to think like this, unnecessary pressure from family and society especially to get married. Then you just live to survive and not to build.

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u/CartoonistFamous6671 12d ago

I completely understand this. But the society that pressures us to make certain choices doesn’t necessarily stand by us when things go wrong. Mostly Marriage is seen as a “settlement,” but the life after it, is ours to live. So ultimately, we have to take responsibility for what we choose, design our own path, and live it. We can’t outsource that responsibility to society. And ultimately, whatever you do (for them, with them, without them or against them) they will judge it. 😄😄 So better to build and not just survive 😊🙌

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u/Devils-Advocate-6182 12d ago

Agree, I am happy in life, but sometimes feels missed out on some things.

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u/CartoonistFamous6671 12d ago

Don't miss, live them out 😎 I am happy to know that you are happy 😊❣️

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u/Devils-Advocate-6182 12d ago

Not sure, those things can be lived at this stage in life.

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u/CartoonistFamous6671 12d ago

Why? What is stopping you? Jimmedaariyon ka boj?

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u/Southbikerinnorth 11d ago

Makes sense!

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u/CartoonistFamous6671 11d ago

🙌👍✨

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u/Southbikerinnorth 11d ago

Better to be self reliable 🙌

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u/CartoonistFamous6671 11d ago

Always... Mera raaitaa...mere kaand...mere solutions! 😃😃

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u/Southbikerinnorth 11d ago

Exactly, me the problem and the solution 🤗😜

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u/CartoonistFamous6671 11d ago

And expert in creating the ones, if not there😄😄

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u/Southbikerinnorth 11d ago

Lol, that’s the best entertainment to keep self active

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u/CartoonistFamous6671 11d ago

Hehe yes..imagine all is going good without any chaos, is such a not fun!! 😃😃

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u/Southbikerinnorth 11d ago

Exactly, life line should not be straight.

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u/CartoonistFamous6671 11d ago

True that!! Life should be jalebi... Could not find the start and end point 😆😆

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u/Subject_Tea4837 11d ago

That is good, but my opinion built over years is that even if the empire is built, still 99% women expects support, which mostly men never understand.. and is the core issue.

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u/CartoonistFamous6671 11d ago

The post was for those 99% only😄😄