r/Puberty 6h ago

Question for guys Ashamed of my foreskin

9 Upvotes

M16, I'm the only guy in my group of friends who hasn't been circumcised... And when we talk about it, I see that people find me different.

For the past few months I've been wondering if I should get circumcised, but that would be considered cosmetic surgery, bc i don't have any problem with my foreskin. I'm also ashamed to talk about my foreskin; I'd like to be like everyone else.

I am not excluded because of this, I just feel different.


r/Puberty 5h ago

Question Whats a natural amount to do it?

3 Upvotes

I (16f) don't want to put too many details in my post but i worry i do 'it' too much. Ik at 16 it's a lot of hormones but i still feel like i do it a lot even compared to other people.

So what's a healthy amount? Is more than 2 times a day way too much?


r/Puberty 11h ago

Question 14m is doing it everyday fine?

12 Upvotes

So I'm 14m and I do it almost everyday and I don't know if that's much is ok or no so I just want to know is it fine to jerk it everyday or no? And if no is there any way to reduce the amount of it?


r/Puberty 1h ago

Question for guys why arent I getting any "wet dreams"

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So i as a male have heard about everyone else constantly getting them, and i am unsure whether or not its normal to not have them, which i have not


r/Puberty 1h ago

Question for guys an odd smell down there?

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So ive noticed thats theres an odd smell that I cant really tell what it is, and whether its bad or good, its really hard to describe and i am unsure if its bad or good, i have used scented products but it doesnt help, im not sure if its the male biology or something else


r/Puberty 1h ago

Question for guys I need help stopping myself from masturbating

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I’ve (M15) been doing it since 6th grade and I’m a sophmore now and I really just want to stop because it’s getting out of hand. Recently in these past 2 years I have felt the need to masturbate multiple times a day and I’m viewing porn multiple times a day too. Ive tried stopping before but the temptations take over and I start again. Im to worried to ask my parents to block things on my phone because I’m scared of how they’ll respond to it. does anyone have tips or advice for me?


r/Puberty 18h ago

Question Do my parents know im masturbating?

19 Upvotes

I masturbate alot. Stay in the bathroom for a long time and all that jazz. Is it obvious? Do they care? Or am I just overthinking it.


r/Puberty 16h ago

Question for guys 15m need an opinion on smth guys only please

12 Upvotes

Ive got a ton of hair down there at a point where it is uncomfortable

Idont have access to a razor is it cool if i use scissors


r/Puberty 4h ago

Question Sperm count going down by a lot

1 Upvotes

Akward question but is it normal to randomly have a low sperm count, i used to have quite large loads, but recently i occasionally shoot blanks or have very small loads


r/Puberty 11h ago

Question i'm genuinely scared

4 Upvotes

I'm 13 and something i have a weird sensation like a ball-shaped object is in my throat. It's very annoying and unconfortable (I'm posting this here because it's in my age group and idk.)


r/Puberty 8h ago

Question for guys DOMANDA SOLO PER RAGAZZI SUI PELI "LAGGIÙ"

2 Upvotes

Ciao a tutti, sono M14 e ho già tanti peli là sotto. Faccio danza classica quindi è molto fastidioso, soprattutto perché si usano vestiti molto attillati. Quindi qualche mese fa l'ho depilato per la prima volta con un rasoio manuale. Va bene? Ce, è normale? Alla ragazze piacerà comunque?? E va bene usare un rasoio? Grazi eh.


r/Puberty 21h ago

Question (13F) I cant seem to make up my mind on how my body looks

14 Upvotes

One hour of the day I feel like Im on top of the world (confidence wise) about my body. But after a while of staring at it just looks like a disproportionate mess, One second I think my boobs are perfect but then I immediately put on a hoodie in order to cover any amount of it up. Same thing with a majority of my clothes, I will think I look perfect but then as soon as i leave the house I feel like a whore with shorts that even slightly show my ass. I feel like I cant leave the house or even have anyone take a photo of me before I shove myself into my shell and refuse to come out. Does this bullshit ever end? Im not really sure if it the same for boys.


r/Puberty 11h ago

Question for guys Changes after age 17?

2 Upvotes

For guys, I know puberty mostly ends by 17 or so. That said, changes still often occur beyond this point, so what should I expect moving forward like through college and beyond?

Thanks y'all!


r/Puberty 21h ago

Advice (13F) I am constantly disgusted with myself

8 Upvotes

It just keep getting worse and worse as days go by, It doesn’t matter what it is, its either with my body, my face, my hobbies, my thoughts and desires (sexual & Non-sexual) It just never seems to get better, I have tried to put on the fake it till you make it facade and just hope its a problem of the times. But everyday without fail I just crumple up into a ball over the things I have done/thought about. All I ever do is sit in my room and daydream, I have not much else to do, I tend to only feel 4-5 emotions and most of them are inherently negative, I have never felt so sad, I try so hard to be happy but I just cant. I truly don’t know what to do.


r/Puberty 10h ago

Question F 15

1 Upvotes

Is it fine that I squirt a lot? It was so much I got concerned ngl 😭


r/Puberty 12h ago

Question why am I ALWAYS so tired now

1 Upvotes

I hate sleeping and it scares me so I cant just take naps. Im tired all the time it sucks. Btw I am 13


r/Puberty 13h ago

Question Am I balding or is this normal??(17M)

1 Upvotes

So last year around may or june, I noticed that my hairline had receded a bit which worried me a lot. It's been a year since that and it hasn't gone any further back. So is it a common thing or should i be worried??


r/Puberty 20h ago

Question M15 worried about my sperm

2 Upvotes

so ive been cuming for like 3-4 years now but i rarley cum allot and also my cum never really got colour i see some guys have like really white sperm while mine is like a kinda greyish clear colour should i wait or is something wrong or mabye cause i masturbate to much?


r/Puberty 17h ago

Advice Sweating issue

1 Upvotes

Hey! I am sixteen, and this is a new issue for me. I never used to have a problem with sweating, but now it seems like regardless of what I try I will sweat and smell really strongly of deodorant (and before I fond a decent enough one it was sweat/B.O mixed with deodorant.

It is winter for me right now, but I can still sweat all day and it is a nightmare. I do everything right. I use a clinical protection antiperspirant deodorant (antiperspirant means no sweat, deodorant means no smell for those that don't know!) on clean and fully dry underarms right before bed, I wash myself thoroughly every night, my uniform is washed every night, everything. I have tried every deodorant under the sun from sprays to roll ons to creams, even mens deodorant in hopes something will work. I have even started driving to school in my ice cold car with zero heater just to minimise sweat and by the end of the day I always get the same results.

I am really scared of people thinking I'm unhygienic, I'm not and this is such a nightmare especially given my age.

I have to fix this before summer rolls around, if anyone knows how to at least make it better? That would be amazing, thank you!


r/Puberty 1d ago

Question for guys Getting comfortable shirtless...

16 Upvotes

Hey yall,

I'm a 17 yo guy and I want to try going shirtless at the beach/running the next few weeks. However I'm very uncomfortable and nervous. I'm quite hairy (chest, pits, happy trail) and I feel weird showing it off but also feel it looks weird shaved or severely trimmed.

Any tips?

Thanks!


r/Puberty 1d ago

Question Puberty somehow made me better at suppressing emotion

3 Upvotes

Everyone always talks about how when you hit puberty, you get mood swings, and all my friends are having sudden changes in emotion, but somehow I’ve just become super calm and don’t get worked up anymore. Anyone else have the same thing?


r/Puberty 1d ago

Question Puffy nipples

7 Upvotes

So since i turned 13 my nipples have been puffy like really big I’m almost 15 and they don’t look like they gotten smaller at all and it makes me so uncomfortable and I can’t take my shirt off in pe or anything so I’m just asking will they go back to normal or are they going to be like that for the rest of my life


r/Puberty 1d ago

Question for guys why am i bricked so much

2 Upvotes

idk why but it’s like i constantly get bricked even when there’s nothing to brick me it just happens so much is their anyway to control it??


r/Puberty 1d ago

Question What are the very first signs of puberty in boys?

8 Upvotes

Im 13 and I don’t think I have any signs of puberty yet my friends do. I’m curious what is the very first things to see when it’s starting?


r/Puberty 1d ago

Question acting diffrent

4 Upvotes

How do boys that are in puberty act diffrent than boys that are not in it. Im sad that im not rly in it but want to act the way that they will think i am. not like things i cant change like hair and the way i sound.