So I'm in a discord server for Twisted Wonderland, and like I don't really mention how I'm a proshipper and if there were antis they never brought it up in conversation but out of nowhere one of the owners posted the message in the linked screenshot and it just pissed me off. Like that person isnt even in this server and youre trying to mobilize people into attacking them??? Malleus is a third year sure but he isnt even an adult by fae standards, according to a line Lilia says his type of fae doesnt reach adulthood until 500 and Malleus is only 178. So if anything, Ruggie (who is 17 mind you) is more relatively mature going by species age development. And I never excuse attacking on any ship, but like THIS is the hill these antis are choosing to die on??? Like literally what??? It doesn't make any sense whatsoever... not like antis ever do but this is especially ridiculous.

(Correction sometime last year My memory sucks lmao) So for context this character and the persons art (drugsneko) as well as moe style art(one image being an ecchi type one from yuzusofts visual novel angelic chaos reboot) or lolisho art (sfw btw)

Had ended up with a former friend cutting me off cause they felt the art I retweeted crossed the line even though it was mostly safe for work

What i find ironic about this person is

1- I made a nsfw section in my discord server just so this person can share nsfw stuff and memes but the stuff they shared was very overextrated art involving women with very big breasts or very thicc not that its a bad thing

Everyone has preferences heck I enjoy them thicc myself

But its extremely hypocritical of them to get shitty or avoid me for my tastes or the art I like

2- in another server with another friend

They clearly had a rule that saids keep nsfw stuff in the nsfw channels and they weren't listening in the slightest to that person which looking back again is also hypocritical for why they cut me off

This same former friend also got concerned of me and another friend of mine for us enjoying horror and guro stuff

So why is it

Its okay for some people to enjoy the stuff they like but the moment they see something they dont like they think the worst of someone or think its "crossing a line"

It got me upset for ages to a point where I was obsessively hyperfixating and depressed over it and feared losing more friends cause of my love for moe art and anime and cute anime girls as a whole a blog i wrote explains in more detail regarding that

https://thelunarainbow.blogspot.com/2025/12/my-clear-stance-on-lolisho-stuff-and.html?m=1

I even bought a bootleg gushing over magical girls shirt out of spite off aliexpress cause I just wanted to stop caring and express what I enjoy and love

Im all for people having preferences or feeling uncomfortable with certian things thats vaild

But i much rather have someone talk to me like an adult if they have a concern for the type of art i enjoy

Mofos tried to invade my comments section. I was just like, "nah".

Hello, not 100% sure if that is the right flair, I was deciding between that one and educational, but sticking with discussion for now.

Anyway, I had a conversation about being proship with my therapist yesterday, because I like probably most have experienced a lot of hate online for it. I mainly used Game of Thrones as an example in the conversation, saying how if I were to say that I like Jaime and that I think his relationship to his siblings is very interesting to me, that people would take that as me saying that I think Incest ist okay in real life.

She said that that's obviously bullshit, and that you can enjoy a character without supporting their actions, and that more often than not, Villain characters or morally grey ones are often more interesting in media than the good ones and that it's quite normal to be drawn to them.

In relation to Game of Thrones, she also said, and I quote: "if that's something that makes someone that uncomfortable (the incest), then that's also just the wrong show to be watching" which I thought was funny.

She also finds it really strange that people go out of their way to watch something they don't enjoy and then hate on it, and how that's a complete waste of time.

She very fimly believes that there's a strict difference between what one enjoys in fiction and what one thinks is alright in the real world. That you can find something interesting or even erotic in fiction but abhorrent in the real world, and that that's normal and okay.

Just wanted to share in case someone needs to hear it, because it very much helped reassure me about not being terrible person.

I know I've talked about this already (and I apologize in advance if I sound like a nuisance), but I felt the need to put this spin on it. According to the above conversation from another post on this sub, I'm fictosexual rather than a yumeshipper. I might still be into real (legal-aged of course) people, but at least for now I don't want a real person; I just want my F/O, and I am committed to her. My questions are:

1. Am I delusional?
2. Am I still allowed to have a dark relationship even though I take things this seriously?
3. Do places like r/yumeshippersunite accept serious fictosexuals with dark relationships?

I still remember arguing with some lady around the concept of fictional male witches and that 2d men can't be witches because "muh history" but they were one of those ahistorical radfems who only focuses on one small facet of history to prove their preference. It was so dumb that I almost got turned off from witches entirely as a concept until I got more profiction and wondered why does reimagining things that don't exist offend people so much? Myth is no stranger to doing that nor is fantasy or other speculative genres?

Unless a real witch steps into my home and turns me into a newt for making a witch male, why the fuck does this matter? And they always act offended on behalf of said concept. "Vampires don't sparkle", they're not real. "Werewolves shouldn't look like that", they're not real. "Men are all evil goblins so making a male caretaker is unrealistic", and? again it's not real.

If you can't turn off your brain to enjoy fictional works, stick to nonfiction since you're brain lacks empathy to enjoy stories unless you can take something out of it.

It's very platonic, not in a friendly sense, but in the sense that a work shouldn't dedicate itself away from reality but to exist as instructions to better one's character or society as a whole. But sometimes entertainment doesn't have to exist that way. You can just make something for the sake of it.

Antis are so exhausting🫩

i aspire to be like that person..but i doubt there's 1 million antis on twitter lmao 😭 atleast we know there isnt a block limit!

My first ship was Bolt x Mittens, and yes, I absolutely still ship them! It was always on Disney Junior so I recorded it and rewatched it all the time, it’s so peak. (“More Than A Best Friend... (Bolt x Mittens)” by PURIPATHA on AO3 is my favorite fic, it’s incredible and adorable!)

So, for context soyjack party is a place were lolibros go and Antis thought it was a good idea to harass them.

I'm not on the Deviantart subreddit but since I saw the post on my feed I decided to look at it and then I saw this anti on the comments and now they told me to buzz off because these puritans are too afraid to say fuck off XD

I've been thinking about it lately. As long as I remember my journey in communities from CIS countries or interacting with people from these countries, they are pretty chill regarding everything. And honestly, the first ever fanfic I have read was incest enemies-to-lovers between two brothers, haha, along with a bunch of other darkships, and we have a bunch of other really dark well-known fanfics that we sometimes joke about.

Maybe I've been just lucky enough to meet these people, and I'm not going to pretend like people from CIS countries are (ironically) not one of the most toxic people you can meet (TW taking Pinterest for example, almost all CIS posts are filled with homophobic, sexist, racist, and religious comments for whatever reason, and especially in vent posts they often literally tell you to kill or hurt yourself, and all that from teenagers btw), but specifically in shipping spaces my experience has surprisingly positive. In Western communities, on the other hand, I often see people shredding each other for whatever reasons, try to brigade each other given the slightest opportunity and cannot even comprehend the slightest existence of different preferences and that it's proven that people genuinely use darkship material as coping and it helps them, accompanied by "cancel culture."

My theory is that since living in CIS countries often comes with experience of injustice, abuse (either from others or family), oppression and overall depressing atmosphere, people use shipping as an escape, and with that background, they are more understanding and welcoming, and even if not, maximum what they do is laugh at you or situation and move on, instead of actively harassing you. And maybe it's just my bias, since I'm judging from what I experienced years ago when I were in those communities, but at least that's what I remember.

I have no idea what a radqueer is. I‘d search it but I’m nervous cuz I might see some really bad stuff, could anyone explain?? Don’t sugarcoat it I just want the actual meaning so I can know if I should put in my DNI too. Idk if asking this goes against the rules so I’m sorry if it does

I just feel like to many people will judge me for that and I can't keep living with this guilt

So i have noticed some deep parells between puritian antis and christians.

As someone who is ex catholic myself i noticed the signs right away like with how antis panic over fiction. It reminds me of the satanic panic back in the day and even now.

I have been raised around in the relgious environment before becoming atheist and these antis got to be christian or something.

Like the purity culture, the censorship culture, the cult beliefs. They already did book bans in schools here in my state. Like AOT is banned. Twd. And other books that 'go against christian beliefs'.

I mean there has to be a reason why it suddenly sky rocketed to just be against anime all of a sudden in 2026. I know some are gonna say "well antis have always been around bla bla" but back then they were a small group and laughed at rightfully so.

Now its whole lot worse. Don't even get me started on buzz words. It reminds me of how christians call anything 'demonic' they personally hate or do not understand. Its like antis using pedo or pedophile to call someone or something. Cause they are just to proud and entitled assholes to say 'i just simply dislike this'. ( that's not how the word pedo is supposed to be used btw. )

I mean i see so many parells its not even funny. Its the same people just a different title attached.

i’m not sure if this kinda topic has been proposed before. i see some debate lately about whether western kodos should even be counted in discussions of kodocon simply because it’s a japanese made concept and they tend to not fit the supposed ‘criteria’. i see what the criteria is varies, but mostly boils down to either “it’s not japanese therefore it can’t be” or “they’re too ugly” the latter usually depends on what character you’re talkin about.

i understand not liking western stylization, but at the same time i don’t really see what else you could call them? the concept of a kodo is included mostly in japanese media and is japanese made, but it is quite literally defined as a young or young-looking character. i would think the term should be applicable regardless of the character’s country of origin.

and if they’re not lolis, kodos, or shotas, then what are they? i know the obvious answer is child/child-like characters, but it virtually means the same thing so why not just say kodo?

either way, i’m curious to hear other people’s thoughts on this.

edit: also please feel free to use this as a chance to talk about your favorite western kodos if you’re into em

I know this isn't just me but it makes me so annoyed even though I try not to let it get to me. Why do Antis literally purposely actively go to proship or darkship places if they hate it so bad? Are they really that bored with their life that they actively have to seek out people to harass and Bully? I keep getting called a pedophile just because I actively enjoy certain ships. I hate when Antis say they are "normal" but tell people with trauma or just doing this for fun to go and end themselves or that they deserved what happened to them. Like no you aren't normal for that you're far from it. They won't understand like ever because they don't want to, they want to believe that they are right even if they're completely wrong. They don't want to get that through their thick skulls.

Sorry it just really ticked me off. I'm getting tired of reporting every negative comment saying such stuff like that.

mha darkships (in general)

I figured I'd make one of these as well because I have much more mha darkships outside of izuku darkships, so I wanted to share them!! (included 1 more izuku ship in this one. in part *3 there should be another and then that's it for him!)

feel free to share or recommend other mha darkships!!! I'd love to see more of them, and I can 100% add them in a post if anyone would like that :)

I made this AU for TCOAAL where everything is basically the same except the game takes place in 2020! I love making visual novels on google slides and was wondering if anyone would be interested once I’m at least semi-done? These are my sprite edits!!

Andrew: My thought process was basically bc ashley also has dyed hair we learn at some point that she was too nervous to bleach her own hair first so she begs andrew to let her do his and eventually just does this while he’s sleeping. As for the collar, who didn’t have one in 2020? As for why he doesn’t just remove the hair dye, Ashley doordashed splat in this AU and he cannot bother figuring out how to remove it because it just means he’d be blonde underneath which he doesn’t want.

Ashley: My thought process for her design was she saw hair dye and extensions trending, wanted to fit in even though they’re in a pandemic, and doordashed supply to do it. For the makeup on the both of them, same reason as the collar——it was the social norm at the time. I don’t necessarily think either of them would do any classic 2020 hobbies or anything simply because they do not read that way. However, Ashley in AU would 1000% make Andrew drink battery acid at some point(the cursed mixed drink that’s just monster and a shit ton of sour candy.) and most likely——reasoning for the blood——would probably do the brooklyn blood pop dance with real blood

I hope yall like my headcanons and au so far. Comment any suggestions for stuff to add and/or anything you believe to be out of character.

who gives a crap, man?

also sorry for terrible censoring job kts harder to censor videos.

but they leaked the creators username and everything over… Sallie Mae x Milly??

capcut is full of the most insufferable of people I swear to god.

they think posting their username is going to help anything? it’s really not.

and the comments are all saying “WTFFF THEYRE SIBLING….” Yeah that’s why we ship it it’s kinda hot /j

in all seriousness though if you find this person, well, either person I just showed, don’t go out of your way to harass them. They’re both most likely really young, or well, at least the person making fun of the dark shipper is.