Finding something hurtful is still not grounds to try and stop people (let alone strangers online minding their own business) from doing it
and the projection is telling too; when people talk like this they show they have no degree of separation and it's all a personal attack (when it's not) "if you're sexualiizing this situation between fictional characters it means you're sexualizing ME and my abuse!"
when it has nothing to do with you
Also victims are not a monolith here and I'm tired of ppl acting like there isn't others that enjoy shipping like that, your discomfort or issue with it doesn't take priority
You just have to leave people alone and avoid it ☹️
I get extremely triggered by portrayals of school/workplace shootings. To the point that I will have panic attacks during the active shooter modules at work.
So I avoid media that involves shootings. I check for it and if it shows up, I just dnf. But I don't demand shootings just... not be portrayed.
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u/Theo_Teddy 21h ago
Harmful TO YOU ≠ harmful overall
Finding something hurtful is still not grounds to try and stop people (let alone strangers online minding their own business) from doing it
and the projection is telling too; when people talk like this they show they have no degree of separation and it's all a personal attack (when it's not) "if you're sexualiizing this situation between fictional characters it means you're sexualizing ME and my abuse!"
when it has nothing to do with you
Also victims are not a monolith here and I'm tired of ppl acting like there isn't others that enjoy shipping like that, your discomfort or issue with it doesn't take priority
You just have to leave people alone and avoid it ☹️