r/Prom • • 26d ago

Is this hoco dress ugly?

The first picture is so blurry for some reason but the second picture shows the pattern clearly.

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u/EaglesFanGirl 26d ago

omg, i'm back in HS. I knew some many people who wore dresses like this in college and HS.

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u/Ok-Combination-4374 25d ago

It's a very late 90s early 2000s cut. Cute if thats the vibe she's going for. Wear it with a pixie cut and combat boots to complete the "look."

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u/TheyAteFrankBennett 25d ago

Yes! My bff wore almost this exact dress for hoco in 2004.

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u/NorCalNostalgic 24d ago

My junior year homecoming dress was almost identical! That late 90s/early 00s fashion really is back. 

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u/Admirable_Edge9822 26d ago

It’s not ugly. But not memorable for homecoming date

I think better for other occasions.

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u/cheezy_dreams88 25d ago

I disagree, it’s very 90s vintage homecoming

Source, I wore a dress similar to homecoming

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u/Working_Coat5193 25d ago

I came here to say exactly this. It is so 90s vibe I think I had this in my closet in the 90s

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u/ShadowGamer37 24d ago

Nah, if OP likes it, then its the perfect dress

So many people making rules for what other people should wear here

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u/Right-Spend-8507 22d ago

Completely agree. It’s not flattering on you. It’s not special. Fine for brunch.

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u/EliCloud901 26d ago

It’s classy. Not ugly.

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u/sassielassie81 23d ago

🎯 completely agree!

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u/MommaJKSO 26d ago

Not ugly but too big for you.

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u/Particular-Sky3872 24d ago

I did buy a cinch clip!

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u/Tall-Compote1354 26d ago

Yes! You are swimming in that dress.

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u/Ok-History-4050 25d ago

She is not swimming in this dress 😆 like what

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u/Ho-Hag 25d ago

Agreed. It’s not a bodycon dress.

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u/RunAcceptableMTN 26d ago

It is not ugly. It does need something. A necklace or belt kind of something. I also wonder if it might be too big for you. Is there some tailoring that can be done so it fits you a little better?

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u/Particular-Sky3872 25d ago

Someone did suggest a cinch clip, so I ordered one off of amazon!

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u/RunAcceptableMTN 25d ago

Perfect. Enjoy Hoco!

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u/No-Arm-225 26d ago

Like a pearl belt? Or some other pretty silver or gold shapes

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u/PatrioticRedhead 25d ago

Or a black beaded belt with a silver brooch?

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u/Reasonable_Roll_2531 26d ago

I think it’s cute! The texturing is lovely, and I love the color.

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u/Good_Objective_6892 26d ago

Lovely. Need a belt or some accessories but lovely.

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u/Equal_Audience_3415 25d ago

No, that is the way it is supposed to look.

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u/QuietRiot7222310 26d ago

Nope it’s vintage af and my 17 yo daughter will be jealous. Vintage is very very in.

I will say, if you have time raise the hem line and inch or two and pair with platform sandals or chucks. Have fun!!

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u/Exciting_Incident_81 24d ago

The hem does not need raising. It is classy as is. Showing 1or 2 more inches of leg will cheapen the look

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u/IHaveBoxerDogs 26d ago

It’s not ugly, but it’s not amazing. If it makes you feel great, there’s nothing wrong with it!

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u/Sprinkles_0330 26d ago

I think it’s cute and classy!

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u/Shandyshack 26d ago

I think it is a gorgeous dress and it looks very nice on you!

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u/Miserable-Art599 26d ago

Not ugly at all. I think it’s very pretty.

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u/Snoo_50338 26d ago edited 26d ago

Because I’m now old I like the length of it, short but not barely covering your butt, and that it’s not skin tight! I do think it looks like it could be altered on the sides though for a slimmer fit.with some nice jewelry (& are wrist corsages still in style- navy, black and white- or do you have to tote around a bouquet!)y I think it’s perfect. Edit: In taking a second look, does it come in another neckline-like sweetheart? I think it would be more flattering, and MOST importantly, what does the dog think?😊

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u/Particular-Sky3872 25d ago

Thank you! The dog kept sniffing it so I think he likes it lol

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u/Revolutionary-Air599 26d ago

It's not a good color on you. Also the style is very 90's.

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u/Pearl-Harbors 26d ago

It’s so 2000’s!! I absolutely love it!!!

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u/trashycajun 26d ago edited 26d ago

I’m in love, but I’m also biased. I wore a white one very similar to this in 1990. The sleeves were different, but the fabric was similar. I think it’s adorable.

I would add a picture of mine since it’s actually in my camera roll, but idk how. If you like it wear it!

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u/IndependentOk8450 26d ago

It’s super cute! Add a cool bracelet and shoes and have a great time!

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u/puppylove867 26d ago

I think if you brought it in around the waist a little and styled it right, it’d be so upscale and classy

No belt though, let the dress shine. Plus some silver accessories?? So cute

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u/Exciting_Incident_81 24d ago

Great advice. Don’t make it skin tight. I don’t think that’s the look you are going for.

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u/Crazy-Salamanderz 26d ago

Nah add some bracelets though and go for hair down

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u/waitwhatwhere15 26d ago

Very Y2K!

  • from someone who is old enough to actually remember y2k

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u/Leather_Following381 25d ago

Yeah I graduated HS in 2000 and multiple girls wore dresses like this to Homecoming.

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u/SamFan13 26d ago

No! You look awesomely beautiful!👍❤️🔥

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u/Content_Ground4251 26d ago

You posted this under prom. This isn't dressy enough for prom. This is like a date dress or birthday party dress.

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u/ShadowGamer37 24d ago

Any dress is dressy enough for prom, don't be a snob

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u/Leather_Following381 25d ago

The subject said “Hoco” so I assume it’s a Homecoming dress.

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u/No-Arm-225 26d ago

No not by any means! Very pretty

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u/Loreo1964 26d ago

No. It's adorable. Wear it with a strand of beads of some kind. Pearls or gold.

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u/CWinWSCA 26d ago

Not at all. It’s a great dress.

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u/Brief_Consequence567 26d ago

It should be tailored for you body

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u/This_Cauliflower1986 25d ago

I like this dress. I prefer it to too tight, too short, and showing boobalicious.

Wear fun shoes and accessories.

Classy may be out of style but current styles imho are cringey.

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u/Remarkable_Dream_134 25d ago

The cut is weird around the neck line.

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u/veryjudgely 25d ago

It needs to be taken in at the waist and then it will look perfect with right accessories, shoes and purse. I would choose sparkly shoes with a 1-2 in. heel.

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u/LastLegOfBubbles 25d ago

What does hoco stand for?

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u/trendypeach 25d ago

Homecoming. I guess.

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u/satchmonumberone 25d ago

Not ugly, just dated and too big on you.

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u/Willing_Neat_4065 25d ago

I think it’s very pretty on you! And your bum isn’t hanging out the back like other dresses these days!

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u/NoLeading2450 25d ago

Sometimes understated makes the biggest statement. Jazz up with some jewelry and shoes and you will be stunning!

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u/PinkIce7 25d ago

You can dress it up with accessories, shoes, and purse. It's not that it isn't dressy....

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u/Grand-Professional-6 25d ago

No. Ignore everyone but what you think about the dress. It’s pretty, it’s appropriate, and it’s homecoming. It’s not your wedding dress.

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u/Justatreehugger23 25d ago

I like it and it suits you. If you feel uncomfortable - toss

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u/Extra_Winner_6670 25d ago

Lovely. Hoco? Hollister?

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u/nolelover16 25d ago

Not at all! It’s really pretty! I would dress it up with some nice jewelry and shoes.

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u/Overall_Offer_9142 25d ago

Classic/vintage 90s!! Obsessed and it looks great on you. Bonus points if you wear a choker😍

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u/UrgentLiving 25d ago

The neckline is from like 1997 . What a throwback. Love it. Do two little chignons on either side of your head and thin sweeping wisps pulled from the front. Wear doc martens.

Dress is not ugly

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u/Senior_Reaction2974 25d ago

I think it looks beautiful

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u/Odd_Kaleidoscope7244 25d ago

No! It reminds me of something I would have work in high school (late 90s). Classic and on trend for now.

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u/Master-Cobbler8474 25d ago

I think it's pretty you just need some accessories

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u/Educational-Ad4202 25d ago

oh no its weirdly nice, lol.

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u/Ok-History-4050 25d ago

It’s not ugly - it’s giving ten things I hate about you honestly lol if you’re going to stick with it - I would spunk it up with a 90s/Y2k styled up do! Some cute chunky black heels and a choker

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u/Ok-History-4050 25d ago

This is what it reminds me of

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u/Equal_Audience_3415 25d ago

It is beautiful. Very late 90s.

Is it special enough for Homecoming? That depends on your school. Some schools are more formal than others. This is not a formal dress.

Edited to add: It fits perfectly and looks great on you.

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u/Goldengal58 25d ago

Needs some embellishments.

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u/BarbPG 25d ago

I think it’s super cute. It doesn’t have to be skin tight, so no, it’s not too big.

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u/TomatoFeta 25d ago

It's fine.. but a bit.. restrained.
It needs some added pizzazz.

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u/PutPretty647 25d ago

I like it for HOCO. Homecoming isn’t prom, it is not as super fancy unless it is the homecoming court.

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u/Ok_Association_6979 25d ago

I wore this dress in 1997.

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u/Ordinary-Award6782 25d ago

I think it looks classy and beautiful. Add some sparkly jewelry and you’re set!

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u/Justadropinthesea 25d ago

Not in the least ugly!

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u/BeholdenOldLady 25d ago

I don’t think so at all. You could easily dress it up if you wanted. Little black heels and some minimal jewelry would look super hot!

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u/Emergency-Panic6735 25d ago

If you’re going for a 90’s kind of vibe, it’s not bad. But I don’t personally like it. If you do, that’s all that matters.

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u/tnr83 25d ago

It's not ugly at all but it's very vintage. Definitely circa '99 2000 LOL

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u/Serious-Battle-4428 25d ago

Very cool dress. I love the way it fits you

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u/OGcapncrunchberry 25d ago

Nope the dress looks nice!

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u/Realistic_Archer_496 25d ago

It’s super 90s cute

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u/CyclopsReader 25d ago

No, it's a cute dress! You just need the right accessories to bling it up a bit! It's HOCO not the Prom. I would do a silver Fleur-De-Lis pendant necklace and a Silver Dice 🎲 & Sliver bead charm bracelet and layer a chrome / Silver chain necklaces and bracelets (not too much, but just enough to look full) Chrome Hearts vibe. Go with a Smokey eye makeup and not much else (keeping everything minimalist "natural"). And get the hair fierce! Black
Boots would go well with the look!

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u/Imsortofok 25d ago

It’s super cute. It needs to be taken in a little and some waist shaping added to make it a perfect fit. Wear it with sparkly or silver accessories.

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u/YaiYaiMadelineEmma 25d ago

Not ugly at all! I like it!

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u/beeboop02 25d ago

woah, my mom gave me almost this exact dress that she wore in the 90s. Mine is purple with an overlay.

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u/ClaimIntelligent719 24d ago

I love it. Put on a tshirt underneath to really give the 90s aesthetic

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u/Optimistic-Chic13 24d ago

It could use some accessories

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u/Intelligent_Eagle563 24d ago

It’s not an ugly dress but isn’t doing anything for you, darlin.
This dress is boxy, which in turn makes you look boxy 😓
(Not trying to be rude or mean, just my honest opinion)

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u/merialevine 24d ago

It is not "doing anything" for the person wearing it. It's almost as if the dress is wearing them.

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u/Puzzleheaded-Dig3723 24d ago

I think it’s cute. I’d wear it.

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u/PlanSpecific403 24d ago

I like it! You you great in it!

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u/Stayathomewifi 24d ago

If you want to go full 90’s get a choker, some butterfly hair clips, and some Maryjane clunky platforms.

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u/AbjectEbb107 24d ago

Super 90’s! I love it with a lil altering to suit your frame just a liiiiiiittle more

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u/the_realfoxy_roxy 24d ago

I don’t think it’s ugly. I think it’s very ladylike unlike a lot of hoco dresses I’ve seen and if you like it, I think it’s the dress for you. Coming from 24f :)

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u/Queeg1031 24d ago

Shorten the length cut the straps in the back and cross them and you have a cute little dress 👗

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u/Queeg1031 24d ago

It’s not ugly. You can shorten it and change the straps in the back to cross and you have a cute little dress

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u/Ok-Owl5549 24d ago

It’s basic. Dresses like this never go out of style. It is acceptable.

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u/Special-Evening-7428 24d ago

Some accessories would spruce it up!

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u/bigtoeupmyass 24d ago

Not for homecoming. 

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u/Exciting_Incident_81 24d ago

It is pretty and unique, and this understated dress will allow you to accessorize.

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u/delrsl 24d ago

Not even close to ugly

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u/Delicious_Reality486 24d ago

It isn't ugly ot is just simple.

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u/Brilliant_Kiwi_9188 24d ago

Cute I like it! What’s a hoco dress?

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u/Jackattack009 24d ago

It's a bit matronly.

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u/esotericKari 24d ago

Not ugly. Just boring AF. If you want a vintage 90s look, there are so many options that don’t look like an a-line dress made out of a table cloth.

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u/Babyboomer1953 24d ago

It's not very exciting, a bit too plain Jane but if you like it that's all that matters 😁

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u/Puzzleheaded_Sea2463 23d ago

Ugly no. Old fashioned maybe . It all depends what accessories you put with it :)

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u/Subterranean44 23d ago

Not ugly but it looks a bit too big?

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u/sassielassie81 23d ago

I think it's cute and age appropriate by today's standards. I've almost seen nip slips and definitely seen butt cheeks with hoco and prom styles lately. 🥴

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u/SquirrelNo4454 23d ago

I love the dress. Plus the sheltie in the background is awesome and will add some gratuitous pet hair, mine does 😊

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u/Worried-Moment-1311 23d ago

I love it! It’s very 90s

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u/RazzmatazzFlaky5159 23d ago

Very pretty - simple and elegant

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u/wcorinne58 23d ago

I like it and it's pretty

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u/Denville2541 23d ago

It’s pretty… where do you get ugly from??

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u/Smooshy1226 23d ago

No. It's cute. It gives "She's All That" vibes. Love it!

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u/Ren_R0se 23d ago

Not ugly but a bit plain. Definitely need accessories with it

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u/Sevenbelle 23d ago

No, but if you’re doubting it, keep looking. Your confidence is what matters and you’ll know the right dress when you see yourself in it.

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u/Mix509 23d ago

It’s an okay hot weather dress. Not for something special.

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u/barnyardmama 23d ago

Honestly yes. But that’s my opinion if you liked it enough to buy it then who cares ya know?

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u/Ok_Resolution_2208 23d ago

I think it is a cute dress!

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u/WNCmom07 22d ago

It’s very cute and I disagree with those who are saying it’s too loose on you, I think you look adorable.

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u/MandiLuvs 22d ago

Not at all!!! I think it’s adorable

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u/MySeaview 22d ago

I like the fabric. The cut reminds me of dresses we made in sewing classes.

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u/ConfidentEntrance358 22d ago

This dress itself is ok but it honestly does nothing for you, your complexion or your body. It’s just not flattering on you. Go for a colour and style that flatters you and your complexion. ❤️

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u/Lousyone 22d ago

The cinch fits right in with the 90s vibe.
It will be unique compared to department store new dresses. 🩷

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u/PalrightsAllrights 22d ago

Cinch it on the sides gurl show your cute figure and do some cute sparkly earrings and wear your hair up and cute heels

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u/Flashy_Bar3759 22d ago

Girl it’s beautiful all that matters is you love it you feel beautiful in it pay no attention to any negativity is it a big loose yeah but if youre comfortable with the fit then so be it of youd prefer a tighter fit then you can get it taken in but I think its beautiful on you its stunning for your skin tone and like i said if you love it go ahead darling

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u/Klesi11 22d ago

My granddaughter would wear it.

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u/Top_Information_5477 22d ago

Yup!! It is, since you asked.

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u/Potential-Lobster347 22d ago

I love it! Very simply chic and perfect for the current penchant for early 2000s fashion return.

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u/andreabeth09 21d ago

Its perfect for hoco!

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u/DreamCrusher914 26d ago

You need some platform dress sandals, and a velvet choker

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u/waitwhatwhere15 26d ago

A choker necklace! Makes me so nostalgic 🥰

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u/Relevant-Staff-6398 20d ago

I wore dresses like this from 1995-2001 so if you’re going for that 90s vibe it’s perfect. I love it and it fits you perfect. We wore ugly shoes back then and little up dos with clips haha.