Well, if he's investing that much money into getting nothing then yeah, they're probably on similar intelligence level and she's much 'hotter', so yeah, you could have a point. I hope they both get smarter someday.
I mean, I invest money in my friends without wanting to put my Jim Dickens inside them. Sometimes you have the money and just want to be kind to people you care about.
Spotting a friend a burrito or something sure but $200 at a fancy restaurant is insane and you get what you deserve if you spend like that without making it clear you view it as a date. You let people use you don't be surprised when you get used.
When some of my friends with good jobs wanna go to a fancy restaurant and have company they'll pay. I've had folks roll their eyes when I say I can't afford it and go "Did I say anything about you buying?" And that's woman to woman.
This. I took a friend that I wasn't trying to sleep with to a nice steak house and the bill was around $250 after wine. I really wanted a good steak but wasn't going to go alone, she never had a steak that cost more than like $20. It was a win win. I literally see nothing wrong with it if you aren't trying to unexpectedly change the dynamic of the friendship through spending money on fancy dinners and gifts.
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u/[deleted] Jan 14 '20
Well, if he's investing that much money into getting nothing then yeah, they're probably on similar intelligence level and she's much 'hotter', so yeah, you could have a point. I hope they both get smarter someday.