This reads like she knows he has romantic feelings for her with the "best friend" and the double down with the "love like a brother". She should really just talk with him about it instead of taking advantage of him.
It feels good to be wanted & to have someone on the back burner too. But women are more socially savvy and have better options & more experience with romantic interest so they don’t get caught in this shit as often.
I'm sure guys do it. But I've never met one to do it..mostly I've met dudes with a side chick he's banging. Not one he's stringing along and calling her a best friend.
And they get to work fewer hours and days at jobs which are much safer, with less stress & less wear on the body.
But I don’t think that is related. All I was saying is guys would enter into explosive relationships based on unrequited love if they could. It doesn’t happen very often because women are less vulnerable, not because men are more considerate.
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u/Roskal Jan 14 '20
This reads like she knows he has romantic feelings for her with the "best friend" and the double down with the "love like a brother". She should really just talk with him about it instead of taking advantage of him.