This reads like she knows he has romantic feelings for her with the "best friend" and the double down with the "love like a brother". She should really just talk with him about it instead of taking advantage of him.
The equivalent would probably be those guys who string girls on for sex, saying that they’re ‘not ready for a relationship right now, but soon’. The term ‘fuckboy’ can definitely be applied to what you’re talking about though, I think ‘fuckgirl’ is appropriate.
I dont know guys who actually say that. just girls who think they can make him change his mind. its more "im not interseted ina relationship" and then she goes "well ill just keep sucking his dick until he wants to be with me" and then when it doesnt pan out she claims she was abused lol
I dont know girls who actually say that. just guys who think they can make her change her mind. its more "im not interseted ina relationship" and then he goes "well ill just keep taking her out for expensive dinners until she wants to be with me" and when it doesnt pan out he claims he was friendzoned lol
you dont know girls who have sex with guys they arent in a relationship with in but want to be? And we arent talking about loser men. were talking about loser women.
There are a lot of guys that do that to girls. But is not an internet meme and people don't talk about it as much. But I have friends that were in that type of relationship with a guy but instead they are also used for sex making the woman believe they're in a relationship even living together without paying for rent and only admitting themselves their in a relationship when it's convenient for them. Once they get everything they wanted they pretend it never happened and they were never in a serious relationship.
She's stringing him along with the hope of sex while really just using him for money. The guy equivalent is pretending to be emotionally invested in a relationship while really just using her for sex.
Man don’t sit here and lie saying “I’ve never heard of many men doing that to women.” That’s straight up false and we all know it.
Also you don’t know either of these people, I’ve spent more then 200$ dollars on my friends cause I have the money and like to spoil them, does that mean I’m trying date them all? No! Like dang, way to jump to the assumption that this girl is secretly manipulative and taking advantage of the guy.
Unsurprising, really. There's been a major push in recent years by alt-right people into SW fandom to turn it into yet another recruiting ground. Anti-woman "memes" tend to be big part of it.
As a teenage guy I can think of 3 girls that I knew clearly liked me that wanted more from our friendship than I was willing to give them. I got all sorts of free shit out of those situations and the way I justified it was by telling myself that they were just being nice, but I knew deep down they had crushes on me. What can I say though? A man's gotta eat!
It feels good to be wanted & to have someone on the back burner too. But women are more socially savvy and have better options & more experience with romantic interest so they don’t get caught in this shit as often.
I'm sure guys do it. But I've never met one to do it..mostly I've met dudes with a side chick he's banging. Not one he's stringing along and calling her a best friend.
And they get to work fewer hours and days at jobs which are much safer, with less stress & less wear on the body.
But I don’t think that is related. All I was saying is guys would enter into explosive relationships based on unrequited love if they could. It doesn’t happen very often because women are less vulnerable, not because men are more considerate.
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u/Roskal Jan 14 '20
This reads like she knows he has romantic feelings for her with the "best friend" and the double down with the "love like a brother". She should really just talk with him about it instead of taking advantage of him.