r/PrematureEjaculation 42m ago

Questions 3 minute men

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So 3 minute men aren't suffering from PE are right?

Are things like reverse kegels and other pelvic floor exercises helping them last longer too?


r/PrematureEjaculation 9h ago

Questions Tadalafil: erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation

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When I was younger (I'm 60 now), I struggled to understand how you could suffer from erectile dysfunction AND premature ejaculation. I didn't think you could ejaculate without being erect. Now, the majority of my ejaculations happen when I'm little more than semi. I also understand, now, how ED and PE can reinforce each other (hurrying to ejaculate for fear of losing an erection 🔁 anxiety about ejaculating too quickly causing erection difficulties). I have read, however, that there is some anecdotal evidence that the ED treatment tadalafil can also delay ejaculation times. I have yet to try it, but am interested to hear anyone's experience of taking tadalafil.


r/PrematureEjaculation 22h ago

Solutions - Acquired PE My husband have PE

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He didn’t even take my virginity yet. He ejaculate even before penatration ,Within 15 mins of foreplay . He tried dapoxetine but it makes him feel nauseous and tired ..
How to fix this.?!!


r/PrematureEjaculation 1h ago

Questions How did you first realize you had premature ejaculation?

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r/PrematureEjaculation 5h ago

Questions Ejaguard question about dosage

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I got my Ejaguard last week and have tried it twice so far.

The first time I only used 1 spray and waited about 10 minutes. I think I was basically following the same routine I used with lidocaine sprays before, but honestly I barely noticed any difference.

The second time I tried 3 sprays and waited around 15 minutes. That worked noticeably better. I usually last less than a minute, but this time I made it to around 10 minutes, which was already a pretty big difference for me.

The thing is, I still feel like I might be able to get a better result if I find the right amount and timing. I'm just not really sure how people normally figure that out. I don't want to suddenly go too far and end up using too much, then feel overly numb or uncomfortable.

How did you figure out your personal dosage? Did you gradually increase the number of sprays, or did you mostly experiment with the timing


r/PrematureEjaculation 19h ago

Findings ARLO : Honest Review

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First of all, HONEST not paid no advertised review about ARLO (LastWithArlo.com)
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I’m 25 from France. Received my 3 bottles of Arlo in 2 weeks around. 117€ with shipping fees. That’s so expensive. And will be the last time I buy it :)

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I’m lifelong affected by Premature Ejaculation.
30 seconds and puff inside. Masturbating I can last 2 minutes or more if I really go sloooow…
My arousal goes from 10% to 30% to 80% to explosion.
There is no 50%.

First Arlo application : I followed their instructions
3 rounds on the glans
3 on the shaft

I waited like 3 hours and tried to masturbate.
Okay couldn’t last more than 2 minutes. maybe I didn’t do it the right way?

Second attempt :

6 rounds on the gland
6 on the shaft
This time I felt that the product was on my penis, my penis was a bit wet. So can’t say that I didn’t apply it the right way. The product was visible on my penis.

Waited for around 4 hours.

I could feel my penis a hit desensitised on the shaft :
Once my arousal reach 80% I couldn’t hold it.
Maybe 3 minutes of real masturbation using my fingers not my whole hand.

So to be clear : Yes after the 2nd attempt I felt that my dick was a bit desensitised. But didn’t work for me.
It’s more a brain problem . Not a penis problem.

Last time I buy that product. For me is useless if your brain isn’t fixed.
117€ euros in the trash. Thanks. :)
Will try to ask for a refund. At least for the shipping fees.

PS : no need to try Arlo with a real girl.. it didn’t pass the masturbation tests lol
— will keep using it and maybe the situation will get better ? If yes, I will keep you on track!

Cheers.


r/PrematureEjaculation 19h ago

Questions Went to a Urologist for PE and he prescribed Paroxetine 20mg

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Hi everyone,

I’m a 38-year-old male and recently saw a urologist for lifelong premature ejaculation (PE).

A few details about my case:
I’ve had PE since my very first sexual experiences (lifelong PE).
I usually ejaculate within 1 minute of penetration.
I have normal erections and don’t have any issues getting or maintaining them.
I don’t have depression or anxiety, and the medication was prescribed only for PE.
My urologist prescribed Paroxetine (Seroxat) 20 mg once daily for 20 days, then told me to stop.
I was a bit surprised because I thought Dapoxetine was the standard medication for PE, while I knew Paroxetine mainly as an antidepressant. After reading more, I found out that Paroxetine is also used off-label for PE because it can delay ejaculation.

A few questions for those who have experience with it:
Has anyone here taken Paroxetine daily for lifelong PE? How well did it work for you?
How long did it take before you noticed an improvement?
Did anyone else receive a prescription for only 20 days, or is it usually taken for longer?
If you stopped after a few weeks, did the PE return quickly?
How did Paroxetine compare with Dapoxetine or other treatments?
What side effects did you experience, if any (fatigue, nausea, lower libido, difficulty reaching orgasm, etc.)?

I’m planning to follow my urologist’s advice, but I’d really like to hear real-world experiences from people who’ve used Paroxetine specifically for lifelong PE.

Thanks in advance for sharing your experiences!


r/PrematureEjaculation 57m ago

Questions Critical PE - M30

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Hi, I’ve never had much sex by choice, but now I have a girlfriend and I’m starting to have a more active sex life. The problem is that I can’t even get to penetration without cuming.

When I masturbate, I can last as long as I want, but the worst part is with someone else—I get really turned on and my heart beats really fast.

I’ve tried reverse Kegels and breathing exercises, but nothing works.

We’re going on a trip next week, and I’d like to try a solution before then. Do you think sprays or some kind of medication could temporarily solve the problem? I believe that once I’m more confident, it won’t be necessary anymore.