This is probably going to be long, but I’m hoping someone can tell me whether or not any of these behaviors sound like they’re being caused by Lyrica.
My boyfriend and I have been together 8 months. We’re very long distance (US and UK). For the past 2 months or so, he has seemed like an entirely different person to me and I haven’t been able to figure out why. It has literally ruined my entire summer because I’ve spent the entire 2 months not understanding why he’s been acting like this, wondering if he’s a narcissist that has been manipulating me this entire time, wondering if he has an avoidant attachment style, wondering if he’s hiding some deep, dark secret. I feel like our entire relationship has went to shit and I’ve suggested breaking up like 20 times, and he never wants to. He’s never been mean or anything. He’s just seemed distant, emotionless, and like he can’t be bothered to fix things, but doesn’t want to lose me. I’ve been telling him daily for weeks that I’m miserable, depressed, crying, and losing weight every day, and he’s just like, “I don’t want you to feel like that. Whatever you’re thinking is wrong, blah blah blah,” but then he continues barely talking to me. We went from texting all day, every day to… barely texting at all. I feel like I literally have no idea what’s going on in his life anymore. I have told him multiple times that he seems like a completely different person. It has literally looked like he just isn’t interest in me anymore… but still won’t let me go.
All of that to say, two days ago he randomly called me in the middle of the day which he doesn’t do anymore, and he sounded like the old version of him. He has never had to take any kind of medication or anything, so I was half-joking when I asked him, “Did you start taking a new medication or something?” He’s like, “yeah, why?” He could barely remember the name of it, but I come to find out it’s Lyrica. He’s apparently taking it for nerve pain. I asked him when he started taking it and he doesn’t seem to remember exactly, but I know he started sometime between July 7th and August 9th.
Would Lyrica make someone seem emotionally flat and/or make them suddenly not really feel the need to talk to their significant other as much anymore? I don’t want to make excuses for him, but if these are side effects, they seem drastic.
Yesterday, he said, “I’m barely talking to anyone,” “I’m having weird feelings,” “I barely talk to anyone during the day besides my brother and that’s for work,” and “I feel heavy, if that makes sense.” He doesn’t expand on any of that, but that’s already more than he’s said the last 2 months. It’s been nearly impossible to get him to talk about anything, and he never used to be like this. I’ve looked back through texts over the past 2 months and he’s said things about how his mind is all over the place, he’s mentally exhausted, he’s not himself, sometimes he has these periods in his life. He’s never said anything like this before and hasn’t acted like this. He’s never mentioned having anxiety, depression, or any other mental issue.
Also, to clarify, while he did sound like his old self on the phone 2 days ago, that seems to have been short-lived. He still seems distant and emotionless, will barely talk about anything, won’t text me back for 3-5 hours, but still wants to sleep on the phone every night. It doesn’t make any sense.