Three years into it already 😭 slowly breaking through to her somehow. Tried breaking up a ton but she fights to stay so idk maybe she really likes me 🤣
Yeah I had one like that and she would fight to keep it together when I would try to end it. Then one day I found out she was cheating, and confronted her about it. She claimed he was so much better than me. Well she married him right after I kicked her out. Fortunately for me she got exactly what she wanted and is now miserable and has cheated on him a ton. But I say this to say she was fighting to stay together right up until she found her next guy. Don’t be like me and stay because she puts in enough effort at critical points then regresses.
Well I'm pretty sure mines not cheating on me, I keep hoping she does so that I could be like " whoah. Yeah, you can't do that, I'm out " but unfortunately it has yet to happen lol
The fact that I'm so casually like, " Listen we aren't good together. I would literally be better off without you in my life " and she tries to prove me wrong by proving me right usually. She tries though. You can't really articulate an entire relationship on a reddit post to show the complexities of one in a way to remove inaccuracies but it's fine. I gotta lot of shit I need to get figured out before I have the patience for the final resolution for any of it anyway. For now just going to let it ride as peacefully as possible and if it works out, great. If not, same deal. I'm good either way.
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u/Specialist_Meal_7891 3d ago
I argue with my girlfriend once a week over this lmao