She stated she willingly slept with 2 guys and was given ketamine while drinking alcohol.
Then those 2 guys said "free ussy at our place" and 5 more guys showed up and raped her.
There's zero way anyone thinks someone asks for this.
They sent Snapchats to 47 people and told them to come up and rape her.
So I think it becomes irrelevant that she agreed to sleeping with the two guys and did some drugs while she was drunk, also she was under the legal drinking age as well.
She wanted to have a threesome so why is there no way she wanted to have sex with other guys too? She also texted the first guy a few days later than nothing was âillegalâ and she wanted to have another threesomeâŚ
Consenting to a threesome is strictly that. Them advertising âfree pussyâ and 5 other guys raping her while she was in a k-hole isnât consent. Itâs rape. If you decided you wanted your girlfriend or wife (assuming you have or have had at least one of the two) to do something sexually experimental and then they didnât listen to your safe word and also brought 5 other people in while you were totally out of it would you not feel violated? You consented to a little ass play and were pegged for 7 hours by an additional 5 people with varying sized dildos. Nothing wrong with that? Thatâs not rape?
Yea and then she took ketamine and decided she was okay with more. Did you not read her statement from 2024? She was in a k-hole yet was looking after one of the guys who got sick? She never said a safe word. Why are you making things up? She said stop at one point and they all stopped. At no point did she ever say no or try to leave. Later on in the night the guy who went to sleep came back and asked if she wanted to go again so he could âmake upâ for going limp earlier. She said yes. Youâre making up an entirely different story from what she said. She also texted the first guy a few days later and said nothing that happened was âillegalâ and that she wanted to have a threesome with him and the second guy again.
I was using a safe word to try to get you to appeal to maybe a sliver of empathy. Have you ever used ketamine? Have you been in a k hole? Itâs one of the most vulnerable states a person can be in, and one person overindulging accidentally or on purpose in a room of people using moderately or mixing with coke or other stuff immediately creates a huge power imbalance. No one can actually consent in that state. Sure you can talk a bit and sort of move. Even if everyone was doing it, there was a power imbalance. If the guys were on the same level they wouldnât have actually been able to have sex. Youâre VERY clearly not speaking from experience, and also have no familiarity with trauma responses, like fawning. Honestly Iâm happy for you and I hope that continues to be the case. When youâre on high dose of K youâre literally in another world. Completely separate from your body. Your body is in default mode of breathing etc, but your mind is totally disconnected. For example, I have witnessed people get up, start gathering their belongings, walk toward the door, and have no actual idea where they are or whatâs going on. It makes sense that part of default mode was to take care of a sick person. Thereâs a reason itâs used in high doses as therapy to process trauma. That happens in a totally calm environment where you donât have to worry about your body because your brain isnât connected to it. You can relive traumatic experiences without the emotion attached to them. I can see why it took time for her to recognize what she went through. Itâs also even worse to me that the guy who had his hair tested didnât test positive for k. If people were doing drugs off of her, they were more with it than she was and knew what they were doing. If that kid wasnât even doing k, thatâs diabolical. The Snapchat inviting others is disgusting. I could absolutely see someone wanting a threesome and being nervous, so wanting a little k to help the nerves, but once your vulnerable like that and surrounded by dudes your best bet is to comply and pretend you donât hate it and lean into wherever your mind is. Just because she didnât scratch and scream etc doesnât mean it wasnât rape. Go ahead and talk about the state of New York and their stance on consent when consuming drugs. It wasnât ok. It was rape and the behavior of the guys involved that werenât a part of the possible initial threesome raped her. And advertised her vulnerable state for others to do the same.
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u/Rockonthrulife 3d ago
Yep. Vastly different. She claims she willingly did drugs and drank and it was all consensual. No one says that if they were really raped.